Thursday, July 28, 2011

Bedouins - The People of the Desert

Bedouins traditionally live a nomadic lifestyle, spreading from the Persian Gulf to the Atlantic Ocean, and from the borders of Turkey to Yemen. The word 'bedouin' comes from the Arab word 'Bedou' that means "desert dweller." Estimates say nomadic Bedouins constitute about one-tenth of the population of the Middle East.
Bedouin life is generally pastoral, herding camels, sheep, goats and cattle. They normally migrate seasonally, depending on grazing conditions. In winter, when there is some rain, they migrate deeper into the desert. In the hot, dry summer time, they camp around secure water sources. Bedouins define themselves as members of tribes and families. People are divided into social classes, depending on ancestry and profession. Passing from one class to another is relatively feasible, but marriage between a man and a woman of different classes is difficult.



Traditionally, the Bedouin's home, the tent, is divided into three sections by curtains: the men's section, the family section and the kitchen. In the men's area, guests are received around the hearth where the host prepares coffee on the fire. This is the center of Bedouin social life. Tea is served as a welcome drink; coffee is usually prepared after the meal and is the last drink before the guest leaves. The serving of food and drink represents the generous hospitality of the host. The men pass the evening trading news and discussing their animals. Separated from them by a curtain, the women gather in the family area and kitchen along with their small children to bake bread and prepare the main meal. A dinner of rice and chunks of mutton or lamb are then served to the gathered guests.
Women occupy a very important position in Bedouin society. Not only do they raise the children, herd the sheep, milk the animals, cook, spin yarn and make the clothes, but they also weave the cloth that constitutes the tent. The Bedouin men gather around the fire, sharing stories and sipping coffee. They might discuss falconry, the saluki greyhound and Arabian stallions, all animals the Bedouins are credited with breeding, as well as other matters of importance to the tribe. Traditionally, one of the men recites poetry or sings. To mark the end of the evening, the host burns incense in a mabkhara (incense burner) passing it to each of his guests to inhale and fan their clothes. Poetry has been a central cultural form of expression for the Bedouins throughout their history. In early centuries of Islamic history, Bedouin poetry represented the ideal standard for other literary achievements, as well as for the Arabic language. The traditional foods of the Bedouin are dairy products and meat. Bedouins sell and barter products in order to obtain agricultural food from sedentary peoples.
Bedouin society has a strict code of honor which dictates proper behavior for all members, including children. Because of the demanding nature of the Bedouin lifestyle, children are expected to assume a considerable amount of responsibility in order to help their families survive. Although modernization has changed the Bedouin lifestyle somewhat, emphasis is placed on teaching children to carry on traditional ways of life, and the advancement of modern technology is not considered important to children's education.

Modern societies have made the traditional Bedouin lifestyle less attractive since as it is demanding and often dangerous. Because of that, many tribes have settled in urban areas. It is not uncommon to see a young Bedouin building a house and living in it; however, his parents will pitch their tent in the garden, where they will live very happily until the end of their days. Governments have a strong tendency to regulate Nomadic lifestyles since it is only then that taxation works in some parts of the Middle East. Providing services for the people also works best in an urban setting. Today, the Arab world has one of the highest rates of urbanization in the world.
Islam's prophet Mohammed (saw) was born and raised in the Bedouin tribe of the Quraish. The Qur'an, first revealed to Mohammed (saw), was later written and compiled in the Arabic language. The first converts to Islam came from the Bedouin tribes living in and around Makka. Therefore, Islam is embedded and deeply rooted in Bedouin culture. Although there are pockets of Christians in Bedouin tribes, by and large the word Bedouin is synonymous with being a follower of Islam. Prayer is an integral part of Bedouin life. As there are no formal mosques in the desert, they pray where they are, facing Makka and performing the ritual washing, preferably with water. Since water is not always readily available, they 'wash' with sand instead.

Within the hospital setting and during my trip to Madain Saleh I have had the opportunity to interact with Bedouins.I must say that they are certainly the most humblest and hospitable people that I've ever met. They lead a very simple life yet they are very happy and content with the little that they have. They are not caught up in the modern world at all. In fact being in their company reminded me of how it must have been during the time of the Prophet Muhammed (SAW).Many of them do not like to frequent the cities as they are afraid of the traffic and  the hundreds of cars on the road.They find it difficult to cross the roads or even drive within the cities.In the area around Madain Saleh I noticed many Bedouin women driving lorry type vehicles and also riding camels.Many of the Bedouins are afraid of urbanization as it is a threat to their lifestyle and way of life. I remember last year whilst driving in the desert with my dear friend Hassan and his family we encountered a Bedouin family residing in the desert. Their Arabic dialect was so different that even for someone who understands Arabic it was difficult to decipher the words. The old elderly Bedouin man looked upset though and then we realized that he was upset that the Saudi government is contemplating developing a road that would run very close to where these Bedouins reside.He kept on saying why cant they be left alone in peace. They do not wish to change and they are very happy not being caught up with the fast moving world that lacks peace and contentment.

Last week at the hospital I met a Bedouin man with his son. They looked uncomfortable being in the city. They traveled many miles getting to the hospital.Neither the man nor the son could read or write Arabic although they spoke Arabic fluently.I had also met a Bedouin man who was the Imaam of a masjid. He had memorized the entire Quraan by listening to recitations of the Quraan on a radio during his childhood. He was also illiterate and hence could neither read nor write the Arabic language. I noticed that many Bedouins do not know how to use a western high toilet. They find it strange and so when they are admitted to hospital they have to be shown how to use the toilet. Many of them would use very little water to shower or bath and I guess this is a habit that stems from residing in the desert where water preservation is of primary concern. The Bedouins have adopted many customs that goes back to the time of prophet Muhammed (saw). Many of them would tie a cloth around their tummies filled with stones to create weight and curb hunger. A thin string would also be tied sometimes around their tummies to prevent them from getting fat or picking up weight. The string is tied tightly around the tummy so naturally if the person gains weight there would be a certain level of discomfort and so naturally the person would try eating less thereby reducing the weight and hence removing the source of discomfort.Many Bedouin women have tattoo like markings on their faces very similar to the Armenian Turkish women you would find visiting Makkah or Medina. The tattoos indicate the level of status within the tribe, possibly the wife or daughters of the leader of the tribe.


There are some Bedouin tribes that have strange customs and traditions that goes completely against the teachings of Islam.One such tribe resides in an  area just outside the city of  Al Kharj.
The Kharj region is defined largely by the wide valley known as Wadi al-Sahba (sometimes known as "Wadi al-Kharj"), where the floods of many other wadis, such as Wadi Hanifa, are deposited. In addition, there were historically several fresh water springs (called asyah or uyun) that flowed towards the surface through apertures in the earth. As a result, the Kharj district has historically been one of the richest locations in Arabia in water resources, and has supported grain production since ancient times. However, springs of al-Kharj, like those of neighboring al-Aflaj have completely dried up in the last two decades.
In previous time periods, the district was more often known as Jaww, Jaww al-Yamamah, or Al-Khadharim, though the name "Al-Kharj" was also known. The pre-Islamic legend of the tribes of Tasm and Jadis, is set in the Kharj district. At the beginning of Islam, al-Kharj was inhabited by the Bakr tribes, especially the Banu Hanifa. In 862, the Alid clan of the Ukhaydhirites fled to al-Kharj from the Hejaz, and made its main city, Al-Khidhrima, the capital of a small state.
In the 18th century, the Kharj district was, along with the town of Riyadh, the most stubborn foe of the First Saudi State, and was among the very last areas of Najd to fall under Saudi rule. However, the district later became among the most loyal regions to the Al Saud, providing refuge to Turki ibn Abdallah from the Egyptian occupation in the 1820s, and joining Ibn Saud's campaigns in the early 20th century at an early date.
Today, Kharj houses a governmental farm, among the oldest of its kind in the country. Kharj oasis produces dates, vegetables (including carrots, cucumbers, tomatoes and lettuce) and fruits (including oranges, melons and grapes). There is also livestock and poultry, as well as horse breeding. There are also large industries for processed food. Kharj has excellent connections to other urban centres in the country, using the system of highways, railroad and airports of the capital, Riyadh, which is 50 km northwest. Kharj lies on the route to the regions of the cities Abha, 800 km, Khamis Mushayt, 775 km, and Najran, 800 km, all southwest. Kharj is located to an area of deep water pools. There is also a water tower with a restaurant.

On the outskirts of Al kharj is a tribe whose customs are strange with regards  to women. The women folk of this tribe cover their faces completely in the presence of males and females.Their husbands have no idea what their faces look like. In fact their tradition is so bizarre that when one of the woman of the tribe came to Riyadh city and passed away in a gathering not even her husband could identify her face as he did not know what his wife looked like.In a separate incident, a husband tried removing his wife's face covering whilst she was asleep and suddenly she awoke and then decided to divorce her husband the next morning which according to her was due to a heinous sin that he had committed.Young girls start covering their faces from a young age following the footsteps of their mothers and grand mothers. We were invited to a wedding in Riyadh and many women from this tribe were invited to the wedding. I found it most odd that these women were adorned with sleeveless, eye popping outfits but had a face covering as well even though it was an all women's affair.

Though some of the customs come across as strange and ancient, the Bedouins are certainly a lovely, vibrant group of people you will ever meet. So the next time you visit the beautiful desert and come across Bedouins residing in their tents enjoying a peaceful life, don't forget to stop and say hi.They are extremely friendly, hospitable people who do enjoy meeting and entertaining visitors from the city and sharing their culture and traditions with people who are foreign to their own way of life!!!!


Bedouin Proverbs

1. As the camel falls to its knees, more knives are drawn.

2. At the narrow passage, there is no brother and no friend.

3. He who shares my bread and salt is not my enemy.

4. I against my brother, I and my brother against our cousin, I, my brother and our cousin against the neighbors, All of us against the foreigner.

5. I give thee flight without wings.

6. Keep women far away from song, because it is a summons to adultery.

7. Knowledge is light. � and all who contribute bring light to our world.

8. My father rode a camel, I shall ride a pick-up and my son will drive a Cadillac; however my grandson will drive a donkey.

9. My treasures do not chink or glitter. They gleam in the sun and neigh in the night.

10. The broth is cooking, and now we have to act as one.

11. The lightly burdened shall be saved.

12. Truth may walk through the world unarmed.

13. When the shooting starts climb on your camel and head for the mountaintops.

14. When you sleep in a house your thoughts are as high as the ceiling, when you sleep outside they are as high as the stars.



Wednesday, July 27, 2011

South African 'corpse' wakes up‏.......


 I read this article last night and it left me in stitches of laughter.
By AFP 
A 50-year-old South African man thought to be dead woke up in a chilly morgue on Sunday and shouted to be let out, scaring off two attendants who thought he was a ghost, local media reported.

"His family thought he had died," health spokesman Sizwe Kupelo told the Sapa news agency.

"The family called a private undertaker who took what they thought was a dead body to the morgue, but the man woke up inside the morgue on Sunday at 5:00 pm and screamed, demanding to be taken out of the cold place."

This caused two mortuary attendants on duty to flee the building in the small town of Libode in the rural Eastern Cape as they thought it was a ghost.

After calling for help and returning to find the man alive, an ambulance was sent to fetch the man who had "been exposed to extreme cold for nearly 24 hours" said Kupelo.

He said the public should not assume that a sick person had died and contact a mortuary, the report said.

"Doctors, emergency workers and the police are the only people who have a right to examine the patients and determine if they are dead or not."

Tuesday, July 26, 2011

The Magical Month in the Kingdom

The month of Ramadhaan is said to be the "spring season" of the Islamic calendar for over one billion Muslims across the globe. Muslims think of it as a kind of tune-up for their spiritual lives. It is a month marked by blessings, fasting and charity.

Fasting is one of the five pillars of Islam. The others are: belief & testimony in The One God and that the Prophet Muhammed (SAW) is the servant and final messenger of God (Shahaadah); prayer (Salah) - five times a day at its appointed times; alms -giving (Zakaat) – approx. 2.5% of fixed assets annually; and pilgrimage (Hajj) to Makkah tul mukarrama at least once in a lifetime if you can afford it.

Ramadhaan has many benefits. Among  these, the most important is that it is a means of learning self-control. Ramadhaan is also a time for giving charity, purifying one's behavior,doing good deeds, reciting excessive quraan and being engrossed in the worship of God Almighty.

Fasting is also a way of sympathizing with the poor and those who are less fortunate than we are. It conditions us to be thankful and to appreciate all the numerous bounties and blessings that God Almighty has bestowed upon us.Fasting is also beneficial to the health and provides a break in the cycle of rigid habits or overindulgence.

When the fast ends (the first day of the tenth month of the Islamic calendar –Shawwal) it is celebrated for three days in a holiday called 'Eid-ul-Fitr (the Feast of Fast Breaking). Gifts are exchanged. Friends and family gather to pray in congregation and also to partake in a variety of meals.

Whilst voluntary fasting is recommended for Muslims throughout the year, during Ramadhaan fasting becomes obligatory. Sick people, travelers, pregnant and menstruating women are exempted from fasting but are required to fast at a later stage when they are able to do so, health permitting of course.

The start of the month is based on a combination of physical sightings of the moon and astronomical calculations. The practice varies from place to place, some places relying heavily on sighting reports and others totally on calculations. In Saudi Arabia and South Africa, all muslim  communities follow the decision of the local Islamic organizations, which accepts bonafide sightings of the new moon anywhere within the country as the start of the new month. The end of the month, marked by the celebration of 'Eid-ul-Fitr  is similarly determined.

Fasting commences at the break of dawn and ceases at sun set. During the day, Muslims totally abstain from food, drink, smoking, and sexual relations. The usual practice is to have a pre-fast meal (suhoor) before dawn and a post/break-fast meal (fatoor) after sunset. 
Islam follows a lunar calendar which means that the months of the year are measured according to the revolutions of the moon around the earth (each month begins with the sighting of the new moon).
Because the Islamic lunar calendar (hijri) is approximately 11 days shorter than the solar or Gregorian calendar, Islamic holidays "move" each year.
This lunar calendar gives every month an opportunity of rotating through every season completing a cycle in which every month does not exceed 29 or 30 days.
Thus, since Ramadhaan begins on August 1st or 2nd this  year, the next year it will begin around July 20th and so forth. The entire cycle takes around 35 years. In this way, the length of the day, and thus the fasting period, varies in length from place to place over the years. Every Muslim, no matter where he or she lives, will see an average Ramadhan day of approximately 13.5 hours.
One may eat and drink at any time during the night "until you can plainly distinguish a white thread from a black thread by the daylight: then keep the fast until night." [2:187]
The good that is acquired through the fast can be destroyed by five things –the telling of a lie, slander, denouncing someone behind their back, a false oath, greed or covetousness.
These are considered offensive at all times, but are most offensive during the Fast of Ramadhan.

All Muslims try getting closer to God Almighty during the last ten days of Ramadhaan by engaging in good deeds as these ten days are considered to be a period and a time of tremendous spiritual power.The night on which the first verses of the Qur'an were revealed to the Prophet Muhammed (saw), known as the Night of Power (Lailat ul-Qadr), is generally taken to be the 27th night of the month. The Qur'an states that this night is better than a thousand months. Therefore many Muslims spend the entire night in prayer or engaging in the recitation of the holy Quraan.

Ramadhaan is also known as the 'month of the Quraan', as it is during this month that the Holy Quraan was revealed to the Prophet Muhammed (saw).During this month Huffath (Muslims who have memorized the entire Holy Quraan) recite chapters of the Quraan, on a daily basis during the taraweeh prayers which usually occurs after the compulsory Esha prayers, which is approximately an hour and a half after sunset, for the duration of the month (approx. 30 consecutive days), until they have completed the Quraan in its entirety.Muslims believe this is one of the ways in which the Quraan has remained intact since revelation more than 1400 years ago.

It is a common practice for Muslims to break their fast at sunset with dates and water, following the custom of Prophet Muhammad (pbuh). This is followed by the sunset prayer, which is followed by fatoor. Since Ramadhaan emphasizes community aspects and since everyone eats iftar at the same time, Muslims often invite one another to partake in the Ramadhaan evening meal. Some Muslims find that they eat less when breaking their fast during Ramadhaan than at other times due to stomach contraction. Since Ramadhaan is considered to be an auspicious month in the Islamic  calendar, special meals and savouries are also prepared during this month like Samboosas coupled with an assortment of home made beverages and desserts.

Muslims use many phrases in various languages to congratulate one another for the completion of the obligation of fasting and the 'Eid-ul-Fitr festival. Here is a sampling of them:
"Kullu aam wa antum bi-khair insha Allah" (May you be well throughout the year God willing) - Arabic
"Elveda, ey Ramazan" (Farewell, O Ramadhan) - Turkish
"'Eid mubarak (A Blessed 'Eid)" - universal

On a more personal note, the best Ramadhaan that I have ever experienced was certainly here in the Kingdom of Saudi Arabia.Two years ago my family and I spent a total of five weeks between the cities of Makkah and Medina during the holy month of Ramadhaan. It was definitely a dream come true.
Thousands of Muslims breaking their fast together, little children pulling you by the hand to join their families in breaking the fast and partaking in their meals and almost more than a million people praying together in unison submitting to One Divine God was simply a moment that I will never forget. The atmosphere here in the Kingdom during the month of Ramadhaan is electrifying.Usually all Muslim staff only work for 6 hours each day. During the day you wouldn't really find people outside. Most people are indoors sleeping and just simply staying out of the scorching heat. Temperatures here can soar as high as 50 degrees during peak summer.As the sun sets and its time to break the fast the city comes alive again. Many Arab families would prefer breaking their fast in a restaurant or hotel that offers a special Ramadhaan buffet menu. I must say its quite fun sampling different cuisines especially when you in the company of really good friends and family.
I would now like to take this opportunity in wishing all my friends and family across the globe a wonderful Ramadhaan Kareem!!!May the Almighty accept your fast and prayers during this blessed month and may it also be a time for reflecting on our inner selves.Let this month be a month where we can all achieve and attain high levels of spirituality. Let this be a month of sharing, giving and a start towards bettering ourselves in every way. Let us all try making a concerted effort towards doing good, helping others and staying away from all activities that goes against Gods will.!!!


 

 

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Saturday, July 23, 2011

A Match Truly Made in Heaven



So last night was my first encounter with a Saudi couple that is HIV positive.Now you may be asking yourself so what's the big deal. Well in this part of the world it is a big deal simply because many of the HIV positive people living here are what I term as "faceless". They usually prefer being treated at home through a home health care based facility and usually all their medications are sent directly to their homes through the hospital DHL delivery system.
In South Africa I have dealt with hundreds of HIV positive patients throughout my career. I was one of the pharmacists who initiated the HIV clinic at Leratong hospital. But somehow meeting a Saudi couple that were both HIV positive was quite different.And the reason it felt so different was because they were open and honest about their medical condition.They spoke about HIV as though they had the common  cold or a flu.The man contracted HIV through a blood transfusion during his childhood after being involved in a motor vehicle accident and the young woman contracted HIV at birth after both her parents were infected with the virus.She said that she had never anticipated getting married and leading a normal married life with the exception that they both have unanimously agreed not to bring a child into this world. They both oozed with so much of positive energy, laughing, joking and just being themselves.They apparently met at an HIV workshop that both their families attended."It was love at first sight",  he said after seeing her beautiful emerald green eyes."That was all he could see of course", she interrupted whilst laughing.
 The mind definitely has the power to conquer any disease.What usually seems to happen though when a patient is told that they have cancer or HIV, they immediately go into a phase of denial and with denial comes depression and anxiety that by the time the patient has in fact made peace with themselves and accepted their medical condition much time has already elapsed and the patient is far too weak physically to combat the disease.Negative thinking has the power to eat your body away.If the patient is positive from the beginning, going through life's daily activities in a somewhat normal manner miracles do happen. I certainly seen that last night. As the saying goes, "the mind is its own place, and in itself  can make a heaven of hell or a hell of heaven".The couple I met last night certainly made me realize that has a society we are quick to judge people,create stigmas and may be even look down at people with HIV. It is about time that society embraces people that are HIV positive.We need to change peoples mindsets.Some people believe that if a patient is HIV positive it is due to their own risky promiscuous sexual life and so this is a punishment from God. Whilst that is true, the mistake is done. We can not turn back the clock and change whats already done and over with. Instead of letting these patients waste away through regret and depression, through feeling sad and useless, we need to accept these individuals and start treating them as normal human beings. We need to fill their lives with happiness so that they can adopt a positive outlook to life and sometimes just changing a persons attitude is enough to pave their way to better health and full cure in some cases.

As I walked home last night, making my way down the long deserted corridor, stopping halfway to have a cup of Arabic coffee (Qahwa) with my friend Sultan, I couldn't help but think about the happy couple I had encountered earlier.They were an inspiration to me. Images of their bright beaming faces just kept on appearing in front of me and so there was only one thought that came to mind and that was, they are truly a match made in heaven!!!! May the Almighty always keep them happy and shower His choicest blessings upon them wherever they are.........