Wednesday, April 17, 2013

Saudi Arabia's crazy religious police - My personal encounters with them


                                                                              Picture - www.abna.ir

It seems to me that the Saudi religious police are becoming crazier with each passing year at the annual Janadriya festival held on the outskirts of Riyadh city. Last year they were up in arms that the festival was opened to families instead of females and males frequenting the event on totally different days. This year a member of the feared religious police went into the UAE stand to protest some of its contents but was forced to leave by national guards who are in charge of security at the week-long festivities. As he was chased out of the event hundreds of people cheered and applauded especially the women present at the event. A more bizarre incident has taken place at the festival this year when three Emirati men were forced out of the event on the grounds that they are extremely handsome, and will cause the young women at the event to fall for them. LOLOLOL. Absolutely crazy in my opinion. Beauty lies in the eye of the beholder so how can anyone justify that a person is way too handsome or beautiful to be present at a  public event. I had a request from brother Fuaad, who asked me to write a personal account on my experiences with the hai'a, (aka the mutawwa) or the religious police. In total I had around four altercations with them during my stay in the Kingdom. The first time I encountered them was during a trip to the Diera Souq to collect some clothes that I had purchased. The headquarters for the religious police is located down the road from the Diera Souq and hence they are always doing their rounds at the souq harassing customers and shop owners, in particular the abaya shop keepers who sell beautifully embellished, embroidered and bejeweled abayas. As soon as the mutawwa enter the souq area, the abaya shops close and the owners runaway. According to the religious police an abaya should be plain black with no beads or fancy cut work. Nevertheless whenever I frequented the souq I always came across the most stunning abayas with a variety of styles, designs and patterns to choose from. Getting back to my first altercation, the two robed gentlemen came up behind me whilst in the store. They greeted me and then said " Gatty wajhak" which means cover your face. I replied by saying that I am not a Saudi woman but rather a South African woman to which the one gentleman replied that I am a liar. He assumed that my father was Saudi and my mother was of another nationality. Then I took out my Iqama that had all my details and after both of them scrutinized the information on the iqama card closely, they simply walked away. My second altercation with the religious police was at the Janadriya festival whilst I was accompanied by my mom. As we walked through the main gate of the festival area, two members of the hai'a walked beside us and asked us to cover our faces. We pretended that we did not understand what they saying and simply continued walking on. Eventually they couldn't follow us any longer and thus disappeared. During a shopping trip to Hayat Mall we were approached by a group of religious police who insisted that I cover my face. Once again mom and I pretended that we did not understand what they are saying and continued doing our shopping. An hour or so later we bumped into them again in an accessory shop. We thought they came into the store to harass us again however, they came into the store to harass the Filipino gentleman who works in the store. They asked the man to close his top most shirt button as his chest hair is slightly exposed and will cause females to be attracted to him...What nonsense... Absolute rubbish in my opinion. When the robed men left the store the friendly Filipino man told us that almost everyday he was being harassed by the same group of religious police. The owner of the store has apparently filed many complaints with the management of the mall but no action has been taken thus far.
On another occasion I was in the Viss store in Hayat mall doing shoe shopping prior to my vacation abroad. I was the only female  in the store along with the shop manager who I knew on a personal level. Suddenly I heard a man saying " Assalamu3alaykum". The shop manager replied. I was too engrossed in choosing my perfect pair of shoes and I never thought  that the man was actually speaking to me. Again I heard a man saying " Assalamu3alaykum" in a louder or harsher tone of voice. So naturally I turned around and there they were , two tall bearded and robed gentlemen accompanied with a member of the police force. I greeted them and then the man started yelling at me, saying that I should cover my eyes completely by pulling my scarf over it as my eyes are an attraction for men to stare at me. He was also highly upset that my head scarf had a pink beaded border. Take note that on this occasion I was fully veiled from head to toe with the exception of just my eyes showing. The younger of the two gentlemen spoke perfect English. So I switched from Arabic to English and yelled back at him saying the following," In which hadith is it written that I should be covering my eyes completely. How do you expect me to see where I'm walking. Also I am fully clothed and no where is it written that I can not wear a pink bordered scarf.  I am a Muslim woman doing my shopping in peace and you have no business to follow me around the mall. Why are you staring into my eyes in the first place. Lower your gaze." He then instructed the policeman to take me down town to the police station. I said," I am not afraid to go down town to the police station. Come lets go." Then I called up the head of the security department at the hospital I worked at and handed over the phone to the policeman. Within a few seconds, all three gentleman simply disappeared. A friend of mine residing in Jeddah related a story to me about  the hai'a who always harassed his friend at his shop during salaah. Sometimes whilst the call for prayer is being announced customers are still paying for their belongings as they do not wish to wait as all shops in the Kingdom close during the times of prayer. A member of the religious police would then go to this shop to threaten the man with jail for not closing the shop promptly. So one day the shop owner was friendly towards the religious police and asked him if he had a wife and daughter to which the man replied in the affirmative. The shop owner gave the bearded man a dress for his wife and daughter and after that all the harassment and threatening stopped. However, whenever there was a function and the wife and daughter required a new dress, the bearded man would miraculously pop up again to get free clothing from the shopkeeper. The hospital environment I worked in was of course a normal western orientated facility where the hai'a were not allowed to carry out their bizarre behavioural activities. Having said that on a few occasions I had patients that were members of the religious police and they refused to take any help from me. They would stand on the side of the window where I could not see them and they would insist that I call a male pharmacist to assist them. There were many occasions where there were no male staff present on the shift. I always adorn the headscarf, but many of these men would preach to me urging me to cover my face completely. One man said that I should not wear nail polish. As a Muslim I know that nail polish is not a part of my culture from a religious perspective. I always adorn henna. So I then landed up arguing with the man for a good few minutes explaining to him  that I am wearing henna and not nail polish. Personally I do not agree with the concept of the religious police in Saudi. Many of them are uneducated and clueless with regards to an Islamic way of life. There were also numerous reports that I came across stating that many members of the religious police are in actual fact ex prisoners or men who were convicted of some crime during  their life time. The Prophet Muhammed (saw) never forced people into Islam. He advised them but not badgered and harassed them. Religion is purely individualistic. Your level of faith and belief is solely between you and your Creator.Forcing someone to do anything produces no results. Guidance comes from God Almighty and when a person wishes to change themselves from within voluntarily then only can change be brought about. Whilst it is valuable to have lectures and talks on Islamic literature, it is downright ridiculous to have a group of men controlling the way society, dresses, thinks and functions in totality. It is equally bizarre to implement a set of rules that has no basis in Islam in the first place.

Monday, April 15, 2013

Rey's Kitchen Delights









The biggest similarity that exists between a Saudi Arabian home and a South African Indian home is of course hospitality. In general Indians are a food loving nation and I can not deny the fact that I do originate from a family that are all foodies. My family loves entertaining and having people over either for a cup of tea, lunch or dinner. In fact any time is tea time. Having a mom, aunts and a grandmother that are all expert cooks, staying in shape is certainly a difficult task. My mom was also in  the catering business for quite some time now and only in recent times we have asked her to simmer down and relax. Hence mom has decided to now share her tried and tested recipes with the rest of the world. Our home is generally very busy week in and week out with family or guests from abroad. Hence, through meeting and interacting with different cultures mom has been fortunate enough to be able to share her recipes and knowledge in cooking with our guests and at the same time learn about traditional foods and staple diets that exist in other parts of the world. Through this page I aim to provide a step by step method on how to make a variety of dishes particularly dishes that we all enjoy as a family. If you do try these recipes and enjoy the end result I request you to please make a special prayer for my mom. May Allah grant her a long life of good health, wealth, peace and prosperity and may she continue to excel in what she loves doing the most, feeding tummies :)))))))). To the blog readers out there, if there is a dish that is your speciality and you wish to share the recipe with the rest of the world, please feel free to email me at desertmoonsdiary@gmail.com. Bon Appetit!!!!
( Take note that I will try posting one recipe on a weekly basis on the main blog page. All recipes can then be found under the page titled " Rey's Kitchen Delights for future reference)


Having posted a picture of the Umm Ali dessert on my facebook page a few weeks ago I have had numerous inbox messages requesting for the recipe. I would also like to take the opportunity in thanking our guest, dearest Brother Mustafa from Jeddah for sharing some of his Saudi recipes with us during his recent trip to South Africa. We thoroughly enjoyed having you in the kitchen with us. With the chilly winter air slowly starting to creep in, Umm Ali is a perfect winter dessert!!

Umm Ali

Step 1:
Take 500g of pastry dough. Chop it up into small squares and place in an oven tray. Bake the dough at 180 degrees celcius until light brown.. Then take the pastry squares and crush it into an oven proof pyrex dish
(Do not crush it too finely).

Step 2

In a saucepan add one 1 1/2 liters of milk. To the milk add the following ingredients:
1 tsp cardamon powder
1 tsp cinnamon powder
1 tsp nutmeg powder
sugar to taste
1 ounce butter
A handful of dessicated coconut
Chop up walnuts, raisins, pistachios, cashewnuts (Any type of nuts can be added)

Once the mixture is boiled add 250ml of fresh cream. Give the mixture one final boil. Then pour the boiled mixture over the crushed pastry in the oven proof pyrex dish. Bake in the oven at 180 degrees celcius until golden brown. Serve hot.





                                             

Over 600 Saudi women got AIDS from husbands

Kingdom had 1,233 reported AIDs cases in 2012, including 431 Saudis

More than 600 Saudi women have contracted AIDS by their husbands and most of them were not aware of the infection until after they had children, a Saudi doctor has said.

Sana Filimban, head of the Saudi Charity Association for AIDS victims, said the Gulf Kingdom had 1,233 reported cases of the Acquired Immuno Deficiency Syndrome in 2012, including 431 Saudis and 802  expatriates.

She told the Arabic language daily Okaz that male victims of the killer diseases far exceed females, with an AIDS ratio of one woman to five men.

“More than 600 Saudi women have been infected with AIDS by their husbands without their knowledge…many of them discovered they have the disease only after they had some children…this has discouraged most infected women from seeking a divorce as they wanted to look after their children,” she said.

“I call on all married Saudi women to have medical test before pregnancy or at least in the early stages of pregnancy so an infection will not be passed to the infant.”

Filimban said Saudis aged between 15 and 49 years account for nearly 74 per cent of AIDs victims in the Kingdom and that 96 per cent of them have received the virus through sexual intercourse. Most of the remaining victims were infected as a result of having drugs or contaminated needles.

Source:

http://www.emirates247.com/news/region/over-600-saudi-women-got-aids-from-husbands-2013-04-11-1.502240


Sunday, April 14, 2013

The Majestic Turkish Mosque Midrand, South Africa - Part 2

When I posted  my article about the grand Turkish Mosque located in Midrand, South Africa last night, little did I know that I will be visiting the masjid again this afternoon during the midday prayers. We were heading towards my grandmothers home from the airport and hence enroute we had to pass the masjid. Dad decided that we stop at the masjid to perform our Zuhr prayers.This time though I had the opportunity of visiting the book shop where I was captivated by many books regarding Islamic history. The clothing shop also had stunning Turkish jackets ideal for the upcoming winter months. Of course I also decided to snap up some pictures of the masjid during  the day. A beautiful sight indeed!!!