A few days ago there was an article published with regards to the swingers club in Lenasia. On another facebook page people were arguing that the write up just can not be true.Well folks it is true. I heard the story from the horses mouth. The house where these illicit activities are occurring is located in extension 5.. rainbow valley. Apparently it is an area in Lenasia where rich Indian families reside. The club comprises of rich Muslim,Hindu and Tamil businessmen.The lady who related her ordeal to the newspaper divorced her husband within a week after he took her to the club and expected her to engage in sexual activities with his friend. She had no idea that her husband belonged to the club. He informed her that he was invited at a friends house for dinner. Arriving at the home, she noticed many of the women dressed erotically. Her husband dropped his car keys in a bowl which she found odd. After indulging in some finger foods, she noticed some of the couples dancing. She also noticed a man picking up their car keys from a bowl. Her husband then instructed her to go upstairs with the gentleman who also happened to be a close friend of his. She was totally confused and asked her husband why should she go upstairs with the man. Her husband then revealed the truth to her that he is a part of the swingers club and he wants her to participate as well to improve their sex life. Naturally she was shocked. She slapped him, took the car keys and drove off to her mothers home. The lady has been married to her husband for almost 20 years. They have grown up married kids..There is apparently a Muslim swingers club in Houghton, Laudium and Sandton as well.Shocking is n't it...Some of these men who belong to swingers clubs feel that it is better to engage in these type of sexual activities with their wives instead of marrying other women or having affairs. There is also a group of Muslim businessmen who frequent elite escort agencies in Sandton. These businessmen believe that they are unable to marry other women, as their wives will not accept the presence of a second or third wife. Many of these businessmen fear divorce as their wives are fifty percent share holders in the business and hence if their infidelity is caught they will pay a heavy price. Many of these businessmen believe that their wives are old and can not satisfy them sexually any more and hence have opted to frequent elite escort agencies in Sandton where their activities and identities are kept totally secret.
Yesterday afternoon the police informed us that there is a Muslim owned home in Fietas that has become a brothel.Drugs and alcohol is sold at this house. Young Indian, white, coloured and Malay girls are recruited to satisfy customers needs. Muslim businessmen, Imaams and moulanas frequent this house for sexual gratification. Many of these young women are on drugs so they have sex with different men in exchange for drugs and alcohol. I felt so embarrassed when the policeman said that most of the drug busts in this country involve rich Muslim businessmen.These same men walk with their heads high, showing off about their properties,cars and houses yet it is all earned in a haraam way. In their quest to achieve name and fame they have destroyed the lives of innocent young men and women.Well all i can say is that these people can show off about their materialistic possessions in this world but when they go six feet deep they will have to answer to their Creator....
When I posted this info on facebook last night, it seems to have received lots of interest with many people messaging me wanting to know where are the houses located etc etc. I will not divulge any more information. The issue I have though is that the Ulema in our community know that this is happening so why are they not addressing this issue in a Juma khutbah. Every week they talk about the same old crap but fail to address pertinent issues within our community. With regards to the home in Fietas, I hope that the police arrest members of this family soon and take legal action against them. People like that need to rot in jail with the keys thrown away.......
Assalaamu alaikum sister
ReplyDeleteJazakallaah khair for this.
Shocking as this news is, have you taken this further in any way? I'm not asking to be sarcastic or funny in any way but purely because this is a grave issue and as believers we have an obligation to do something about the munkar.
Maybe it's high time that the issue touched some nerves?
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For that thy Lord will have given her inspiration.
On that Day will men proceed in companies sorted out, to be shown the deeds that they (had done).
Then shall anyone who has done an atom's weight of good, see it!
And anyone who has done an atom's weight of evil, shall see it.
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ReplyDeleteSo u say the kutbha is crap cos they don't speak about what you want to hear. If you so high n mighty name the places and people, make it reL or are you scared? Please don't ever refer to the khutba as crap for the sake of ypur own imaan
ReplyDeleteFirstly I do not consider myself high and mighty in fact I'm quite the contrary. Secondly as a Muslim it is our duty to address issues occurring within our communities and try and find solutions to the problems at hand. My Islam teaches me to conceal the faults of another human being. Naming and shaming someone else on a public platform is not the manners of a Muslim. We should pray and make dua that Allah guides these lost souls onto the path of Siratul mustaqeem. Ameen
ReplyDeleteDear Keyboard Warrior aka Desert Moon
DeleteSo the manerism of "your Islam" does not allow you to name and shame those individuals that openy disobey the laws of Allah. But it does allow you to slander an entire fraternity of individuals who are ready and willing to speak about Allah's greatness even if we not prepared to listen....
Wow good to see you consistent.
Assalam alaikum sister.
DeleteI have been on the swingers scene for a few years now, and it isn't as you imagine. Yes I do have sex with other women, and my wife has sex with other men but we are still committed to each other. I didn't force her or surprise her like the man in your article. We discussed it and went forward with it slowly. We dated other people, indulged in pleasure and talked about the jealousy before deciding we wanted to improve our sex life.
There were times when she was being denied pleasure, when she was pregnant for example. I couldn't be home all the time, but she had a need to be fulfilled. So she would go to meet her lovers and when I came home, she was smiling, feeling blessed.
It's not for everyone, and yea, it is a sort of zina. But we still pray salaat (once we had to stop in the middle of sex in a club to pray magrib. We showered together with other people at the club and prayed in the back of our SUV)
There are many sins in life that people commit. This is just another one of them. But this doesn't hurt anyone else
Die in your rage kuffar. Stop trying to spread degeneracy to the ummah. In a khalifah your kind would be stoned to death
DeleteI don't understand why do these guys do this when they can legally(by our faith) marry another woman(or women). It only brings shame to Islam.
ReplyDeleteIt doesn't hurt anyone, it is a minor sin
DeleteDear Desert Moon,
ReplyDeleteYou write that your Islam teaches you to hide the faults of others. Do you not see anything wrong with what you just said?
When you hide the faults of others, then you are a complicit and accessory to the crimes committed. It is your duty in Islam to reveal rather than hide. I know what you are referring to but Allah says in his own words directly from him to hs, that we are obliged to speak the truth and fight for justice and truth even jt means standing against your own kin.
No amount of duas, supplication will help the girls who are being used in the most horrific of ways or the man who perpetuate these heinous crimes against them.
If you child was bullied in school and you knew who did it, would you just cover and hope prayer will hell the victim who has yo go through it daily?
If you knew somebody who was being molested or abused by a family member would you stay silent?
If you answered yes then I my advice will be lost on you.
I think you mean well but you betray Islam by not going forward with this. If it was me who da on this knowledge I would already have contacted major media outlet a d gone to the police. Because silence is tacit agreement. Don't hide behind a misunderstood aspect of faith. When time comes you will be held accountable for your silence. Will you able to answer those who are suffering with your head held high?
If you fear Allah then go forward with this. This is not about naming and shaming. This is about disclosing evil and holding accountable wicked people. This is about justice. Islam supports that. As long as you can substantiate it. Even filing a complaint can sometimes go a long way. Think of Abu Ghraib. If an American army member had bot revealed that heinous abuse the world would nit gave known. Don't you think he had thoughts about whether he was being illotal to the army, his oath or his country? He did what was right. Slam does not support your passive stance. I recommend you read the quran with translation as it is clear you don't know what should be common knowledge. This particular issue is covered in al baqarah among other surahs.
There's a huge difference between abuse/molestation and a consensual "wrongdoing" between 2 or more people that "harms" nobody but themselves.
DeleteNothing wrong with swinging
DeleteThat's right, swinging is fine.
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Communities & humanity at large wants to know why are the muslims suffering in every part of the globe. Ask no one but ourselves. It is these type of acts that muslims should refrain from, however we indulge & become slaves of the human race.
ReplyDeleteHave we muslims forgotten what occurred in the place of sodomn(Jericho /Jersalem boarder).
Your reference to the Jumuah bayaan as "crap" is a worse crime than the zina in which these people are engaged. Your Imaan is in danger. How will you answer to your Creator that you inferred that talks of Deen are "crap". La Hawla...Please retract.
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One said that men has the right to merry two three or four wives then why they getting involved in the behavior, let me tell you, those man love thier wives, they treat them equal.
ReplyDeleteI'm confused... What does their money, how they make money or how much money they have, got to do with swinging?
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ReplyDeleteMy wife was Keen on swinging bit after your post has changed her mind, thanks alot :(
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ReplyDeleteThe Friday bayaan and not the Kutba is banal and irrelevant in today's world.current and topical matters are never addressed.For instance the rules of proper salaah are rarely followed.Hal
ReplyDeletef and hour of blah! Blah! and the Arabic kutba is over in two minutes but this is wajib
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ReplyDeleteI ain't going to condemn the act but emphasise on what brings on dis behaviour.
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ReplyDeleteI have been on the swingers scene for a few years now, and it isn't as you imagine. Yes I do have sex with other women, and my wife has sex with other men but we are still committed to each other. I didn't force her or surprise her like the man in your article. We discussed it and went forward with it slowly. We dated other people, indulged in pleasure and talked about the jealousy before deciding we wanted to improve our sex life.
There were times when she was being denied pleasure, when she was pregnant for example. I couldn't be home all the time, but she had a need to be fulfilled. So she would go to meet her lovers and when I came home, she was smiling, feeling blessed.
It's not for everyone, and yea, it is a sort of zina. But we still pray salaat (once we had to stop in the middle of sex in a club to pray magrib. We showered together with other people at the club and prayed in the back of our SUV)
There are many sins in life that people commit. This is just another one of them. But this doesn't hurt anyone else
Salam
This does hurt everyone else. It hurts your family, your kids. It is also disgusting and a transgression.
DeleteIt hasn't hurt my family, it has made my marriage stronger and brought my wife and me closer. I've held her hand while she's been with other men, she's hugged me afterwards, it has been so blissful.
DeleteShe's been on holiday with people she plays with, while I take care of our kids, and vice versa.
We were both virgins before marriage, we had so many things to explore that we didn't. But now we have become soulmates, who share and explore everything. There are a few Muslim couples in our circle, none forced.
Slmz. I am a muslim university student from pretoria, I actually stay near laudium and have recently heard about stories of swinging amongst our muslims from my aunts husband and some of my friends, its honestly quiet frightening and disgusting. I agree 100% with everything you have said. Our sheikhs do not address these issues at all and it really needs to change. Topics such as porn addictions, zina, teenage pregnancies, doubts about Islam etc. really need addressing urgently. But I feel thats asking for too much from these mamparas.
ReplyDeleteI stay in an area with loads of wealthy indian muslims and the one story I heard was that a bunch of muslim couples would pull up with their sports cars and the men would throw their car keys in a hat and the wives would than randomly select a key from the hat and whoever the owner of the key they pick than they will end up spending the night with that guy. Upon hearing this my heart was shaken. What the hell is going on with our muslims? Its becoming way to common and many of our sheikhs are cowards and choose to remain silent.
If filth like this prevails it will affect stability of our families and result in our ummah becoming weaker than it already is.
May Allah reward you for speaking about this, aameen.