Thursday, January 23, 2014

Why burden them

                                                      



There is never a dull moment at Medix pharmacy. Almost everyday we meet different people from various cultural backgrounds, faiths and religions sharing their social problems with us and thus today was no different. This morning a middle aged woman came to the pharmacy for her medication and I could see that something was bothering her. Whilst chatting to her she decided to reveal her domestic issues. She was a single mom all her life. She worked hard to put her kids through school and university and got them married too. She has four grand children that she loves to bits. So why is she so miserable and unhappy you may ask yourself. The answer is quite simple. Now that it is her time to sit back, relax, travel and enjoy the finer things in life she has suddenly become a maid or a nanny to her children and 4 grandchildren.Everyday her grand kids are sent to her home at seven am in the morning whilst their parents go to work. She needs to give them breakfast and send them off to school. She then comes home, prepares lunch for them along with making two pots of food.. one for her son and one for her daughter. She then assists the grand children with the home work, bathes the kids in the evening and gets them ready to be picked up at 6pm. She has no social life of her own. She feels she wants to go out to the movies with her friends or travel abroad. Whenever she brings this subject up she is told by her kids that she is being selfish as they pay for her medical aid and monthly expenses. The sad and unfortunate part is that there are many grand parents out there who are in exactly the same situation. The kids want to have a rosy lifestyle.. Wake up late in the morning, go to the gym, enjoy social gatherings with their friends whilst the poor grand parents need to overlook the grand children. When I was young, my mother did everything for me. She never dumped us with my grandparents. I was her child and hence her own responsibility. Today's young parents find it perfectly acceptable to make their parents work for them instead of making their parents lives easier. This is exactly what the Prophet (saw) envisaged centuries ago. As our parents age, they don't have the patience with kids any longer.There is only so much they can do. Instead of burdening them with your own responsibilities rather find other avenues of dealing with issues. Having children is your own choice in life. If you cant deal with the consequences, then DON'T HAVE KIDS... Simple....

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Sunday, December 29, 2013

Don't be conned- Understand how a medical aid system works



It is quite unfortunate that many patients out there do not have the slightest idea on how a medical aid scheme works. Many patients arrive at the pharmacy with their card and expect miracles to happen. They expect to buy everything they require in the pharmacy on their medical aid. This is not possible. Unfortunately many unscrupulous health care professionals take advantage of these patients. Medical aids have a formulary and all drugs are capped at a certain price. The patient is liable to pay for the portion that the medical aid does not cover. What I find most shocking is that there are pharmacies out there who entice patients to buy from them based on the premise that " AT OUR PHARMACY YOU DO NOT PAY A LEVY." This is just not possible. At all pharmacies you will pay a levy unless your drugs are chronic and on the medical aid formulary and of course if you have a medical aid savings account. Be very careful if you frequenting a pharmacy where the pharmacist says you have a levy, but you don't need to pay in the levy. These unethical pharmacists usually cover up the levy shortfall by charging an over the counter product on the patients medical aid when the patient leaves the pharmcy. Hence, they score both ways. They claim for a product that the patient has not received plus they still have the item on the shelf. The poor patient is under the impression that they did not pay the levy so the pharmacist becomes well known and respected. Little do the patients know that these type of pharmacies are actually defrauding the medical aids by millions each year. The patient feels happy that they didn't pay a levy but at the end of the day money is still coming out of the patients medical aid savings. Patients often wonder why are their savings depleted so quickly. Many of them fail to read their statements from the medical aid and also assess if the correct medication has been given to them. There are pharmacies out there who allow patients to buy soaps, shampoos and other toiletries all on the medical aid. In other words the pharmacist claims drugs to the value of the toiletries. This is totally illegal and against the law. The other shocking practice is pharmacies issuing chronic medication to patients who have scripts that are dated from three years ago. This is so unethical and against the law as well. These type of pharmacies are not interested in the health of the patient, they are more interested in ringing up the cash register. The reason a chronic script is only valid for a maximum period of six months is because a patients disease state can change within six months. Blood pressure, blood sugar and other readings can change within a six month period. The doctor may decide to change medication or detect other health issues. As a country we have showed the world that we are sick and tired of corruption, so why then do we allow corruption and unethical medical practices to creep into our society. Break the cycle and do not support unethical medical practices. Eradicate corruption at grass root levels first then at a national level. As a patient I would be afraid to go to a pharmacy where anything and everything is dished out to the customer as though it is a candy store. These type of medical professionals have no respect for themselves and their profession, so why would they have any feeling or compassion towards you, the patient. At Medix pharmacy, we pride ourselves in providing our patients with the highest level of care. Hence, we will NOT be entertaining any patient that requests scheduled medication without a valid doctors prescription. We are the custodians of pharmaceuticals and we strongly believe in medical ethics, balancing the fine line between business matters and the well being of our patients. After all sustenance and provision comes from God Almighty alone. If we follow a straight path in life, success is guaranteed.

Friday, December 13, 2013

Where have I disappeared to?


So recently I have been inundated with numerous inbox messages enquiring about my blog and why I haven't been updating the blog regularly as I was doing in the past. The answer is quite simple...BUSINESS... Medix Pharmacy is just one month old and as a team we have lots of ideas that we still wish to implement in order to provide state of the art health care to all our patients. Running a business is definitely not for the faint hearted but it is quite inspiring and encouraging when we get patients complimenting us on our excellent service delivery and also when we have opposition pharmacies snooping by to have a look at our pharmacy lay out. 
At Medix Pharmacy we do not aim to be like a big chain store pharmacy. Our aim is to provide one on one interpersonal patient care. In the last month, the pharmacy has also turned into a social welfare centre where community members have asked us to assist them with various domestic related issues, such as alcoholism and drugs. We have dealt with teenage pregnancies as well as one assault case. What really broke our hearts was the fact that when the victim went to a private hospital she was not attended to simply because she is poor and can not afford medical aid. 
Last Saturday the pharmacy hosted a wellness day whereby patients were encouraged to pass by the pharmacy for a free blood pressure, cholesterol, as well as blood sugar screening. We are quite proud to announce that more than 120 patients were screened and we came across five patients that were positively diagnosed as having diabetes. We would like to thank the Florida community for their love and support and we will continue to have health related events outside the pharmacy on a monthly basis. The aim is to bring reasonable and affordable health care to all members of the community. Our team at Medix pharmacy is dedicated to serving the community. Stay tuned for our upcoming drug awareness workshop that will be hosted in the new year. In order for us to have these type of events regularly, we urge the community at large to come out in full force to support such events so that it makes it worth while for us to host such events.

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Saturday, November 30, 2013

FORBIDDEN LOVE


THIS ARTICLE WAS WRITTEN SOME TIME BACK WHILST STILL RESIDING IN SAUDI....
                             http://viewmixed.com/10-everyday-things-banned-in-saudi-arabia

So yesterday morning I started my day on quite a bright and bubbly note as I encountered or heard one funny story after the other. As soon as the clock struck 7 am I grabbed my bag and dashed down the corridor making my way to the laundry to pick up my lab coats. I was one of the first people to have arrived and hence when I stepped inside I greeted the Sudanese gentleman at the counter. ' Sabahal khair.....Good morning.".....In quite an excited tone he replied " Sabahan noor....Good morning..' There was a slight pause and then he said ' I love you" I found this statement to be most odd and naturally the facial expression on my face changed. As I got closer to the counter I then realized that the man greeted me whilst being in the middle of a telephonic conversation as well. The problem is that I just didn't notice the tiny ear piece that made its way down into his trouser pocket naturally connected to his mobile phone. I had this huge grin on my face and left the laundry building with inner giggles. Then I made my way home. But first I needed to pass by the compound guard to give him water and a few other goodies. He started relating a few funny stories that he had encountered over the past few days. Apparently a gentleman was caught entering the female compound whilst clad in a full abaya and niqaab. The poor soul passed the first security guard with flying colours but his shoes gave up the game. The second guard on duty caught him and naturally he was sent packing out of Saudi. Then there was a gentleman who has been fooling the guards for quite some time now by entering the female compound premises on numerous occasions. He wore the abaya and niqaab to perfection and completed the get up with a perfect pair of lady's high heel shoes. So how did he manage to get caught.Well, he and his girlfriend were trying to brew home made alcohol and in the process started up a small fire in the kitchen. The smoke detectors went off and voila the security guards arrived on the scene within minutes and he was caught. Naturally he was also given his marching orders. Then we have the case of the two Saudi employees who chose to shower their love and affection for each other at the back of my apartment building. A free 'Basic Instinct' show with unlimited seating lol. With the security cameras having picked up their 'odd' activities, naturally our compound guard was asked to investigate. They were so embroiled in their own 'lovey dovey' world that they didn't notice the guard approaching the car. He knocked at the window. Within seconds the girl jumped out of the car and put on her niqaab and abaya. As for her flame, he sped off from the compound premises faster than bugs bunny. I was laughing myself into stitches as I observed the scene from my lounge window. The girl started crying, then she opened up her handbag and removed money that she was desperately trying to give to the guard. Then she suggested that she will buy him clothes, perfumes and send his meals everyday provided that he does not report their activities. Of course he refused to accept her bribes and she was reported for her actions. In the afternoon I made my way back to the hospital and bumped into my colleagues who related to me a few other hilarious stories. The cameras apparently picked up two western nurses smooching in the ward and hence the executive on duty was asked to deal with the situation. As he was relating the story to me he was simply laughing and said that he had more serious issues to deal with than disciplining two people who are definitely in love....So he sat them down in his office, gave them each a cold glass of water and said....." Drink this and cool off.....Its great to love but please keep it out of the hospital premises." He is way too soft a human being to terminate or fire someone from their job. Then another colleague of mine related his hilarious story to me. He was waiting near the elevator to meet up with one his friends from another department. He noticed the lift going up and down and each time the door opened the same two people were in it. A male messenger and a female security guard. They chose to spend their private escapade in the elevator. So they simply went up and down until my colleague decided to step inside the lift. Both of them apparently froze to the point that the poor messenger did n't even recognize the first floor despite working on that floor everyday. My colleague apparently exited the lift with a huge smile on his face and a wink. Now in any other country or society, people would socialize in a mall or a restaurant. In Saudi Arabia, the hospital is the main center of socializing as it is an open environment where males and females are allowed to interact with each other. I have come across patients who have no medical issues at all and simply frequent the emergency department to interact with medical professionals of the opposite sex. Take note that for some Saudi males and females it is the first time that they have interacted with members of the opposite sex when they start working within a hospital environment. When you have young males and females that have been brought up in a repressed manner, " there will be high levels of love in the air and so anything can be expected." according to my Nigerian counterpart. Some friendly advise to the western expats out there, bear in mind that when you are coming to Saudi Arabia to work here, that you need to adhere and abide to the laws of the country in the same way that other nationalities would have to respect your country's laws and regulations.Before you choose to make a complete fool out of yourself in the public arena, remember that Big brother is watching!!!

Thursday, November 14, 2013

The only fusion nasheed group in South Africa- THE WAAHID GROUP

At the very successful launch of the Seven Seas Signature Spa, I had the opportunity of interacting with the world renowned WAAHID nasheed group who  is the only fusion nasheed group in South Africa at present. They entertained the crowd by belting out their famous nasheeds that can be heard regularly on various television as well as Islamic radio stations world wide. A few years ago the group performed with the famous nasheed artist Junaid Jamshed at the Wits University great hall.I had the opportunity of being present at that performance as well. Since then the group has grown from pillar to pillar and from strength to strength. I was told that they making their way  to the UK soon where they will be performing to an audience of 60 000 people. What really appealed to me about the Waahid group as a whole, was undoubtedly the humble down to earth character displayed by each member of the group. I am quite honoured to have had the opportunity to interview the group. Read on to find out more in their own words.....


 1. Firstly, I would like to thank the Waahid group for taking the time out to answer these questions? So tell me who is the Waahid group? I would like each member of the group to introduce themselves,basically provide my readers with a brief synopsis of your life from childhood up until present?
Waahid is South Africa's only fusion anasheed group since we are able to not only fuse languages but also fuse styles, genres and cultures which makes us very rare and unique. This is why we call ourselves Waahid which means One in Arabic.  All the members have had different backgrounds with different experiences and are skilled in different ways yet we are able to unify our sound creating harmonies and melodies that entice the soul. We aim to create a world where all races, ages, cultures, religions an geography can unite as Waahid (one) through melody and music.*
AK Mahomed – I have over 30 years experience in the music industry and is the producer of all of Waahids nasheeds.  I own Cap Studios were I record all of Waahids songs. I am a jewellery sales agent in the KZN region.
Naeem Sheik Hameed - I was born and brought up in the beautiful city of Durban! I consider myself a true South African, having an Indian dad, a Malay mom and being born in the City of Durban in Africa. I come from a large family of seven. I have two gorgeous sons who are my heart and soul and definitely my reason for waking up in the morning!! My passion has always been in the Aeronautical field and I believe I am well on my way to getting there with a Degree in Mechanical Engineering obtained with Distinction. I have worked at some of the biggest and most respectable companies in South Africa. This experience has been in diverse areas such as earthmoving machinery, sugar manufacture and hydraulic machinery manufacture. I have been a Test, Hydraulics, Maintenance, Project and Design Engineer and I am currently posted as Quality Engineer for the Local Government Electricity Department. Alhamdulillah! I have been involved in the design of machinery that is being utilised all over the world. My next goal is to obtain the coveted Government Certificate of Competence for Engineers. With over 20 years of experience gained in the Nasheed industry, I have produced 2 solo albums whose Anasheed feature regularly on the Top 8 as well as Local is Lekker! I am the Managing Director of NOS Hardware Wholesalers, a company founded by my brothers and me. I am co-founder of the Waahid ‘Power of Dreams’ Group of Companies, Lead Singer as well as Managing Director. I have recently established NSH Recording Studios where I will be producing my solo albums. I hope to be counted amongst those who have contributed to the advancement of Nasheed in the world!
Farid Loyiso Matana - My story to islam is quiet long. But the jist of it is wen I was stil at university at PE the 9/11 attacks occured I was active member of ancyl. Our agenda was anti west n pro poor. Wen CNN. Showed us propaganda by accusin bin laden n havin witness wit passports yet their bodies were burnt. We had t-shirst written. Osama our hero in campus that made me research islam more in fact wen I became of sane mine I always wanted islam but didn't know how to get it.  So one friend of mine became muslim he gave me dvd I watched n made my mind I decided to migrate coz I was done at home I went soweto not knowin no one there. I met a strange lady who gave me refuge at her home. What was weird is I left home wanting islam. N in soweto I saw one huge building. Nex to the house I was stayin I went there I saw the imam he told me this a musjid a place of muslims. The it clicked on me I was at right place I took shahad following day witout no one giving me dawah. Only on sacrifice n following my heart living my parents n birthplace in search of success.   My story has featured on Chanel Islam International.   All praise are due to Allah the best of Guide
Nazeer Riaz Jamal - I grew up in Overport, Durban and schooled at Al Falaah College. I always had a love for the natural environment and so completed my Honours Degree in Environmental Science at UKZN where I also was the president of the Muslim Students Association and the founder of an environmental NGO called PACT (People Acting Caring Thinking). I began working for government as an environmental inspector and climbed the ladder to where I currently am as Assistant Director for the Department of Environmental Affairs under the Compliance Monitoring Inspectorate (Green Scorpions). I am titled by the Assoc. of Muslim Advancement (New York) in 2009 as a Muslim Leader of Tomorrow as well as a 2012 Top Young South African by the Mail & Guardian. I love music and have learnt the basic of playing the guitar but hip hop is my first love. I want to make a change in the world through nature, music and melody, Inshallah. I am the beatboxer (vocal percussions), singer and rapper of the band as well as the Finanical Director. I am also a radio and TV presenter in my spare time and a Director at the Al Ansaar Foundation (a charity organisation).
Ahmad Abdulatif Mponda - I am your simple but fun-loving farm boy, I grew up in Westville and later on, in Central Durban, and now currently just out of Durban. I am the Arabic Vocalist, Creative and Bookings Director in the group, where when you're hear something in arabic, it most likely would be me. I am a Haafiz, Alhamdulillah, did hifz in Camperdown and completed in 2002 and schooled at Orient Islamic School. Currently completing a National Diploma in Travel and Tourism Management and doing my intern, Radio Presenter in the spare time and I am also a qualified fitness instructor for Virgin Active. You must be wondering, a Haafiz, Travel and Tourism, Fitness Instructing, Radio Presenter and Waahid, how do all these link to each other?, well, the answer is simple, UNITY IN DIVERSITY and this shows how diverse one can be within oneself and still live in unity with the rest of creation. Friendly, full of smiles and crazy, are just some of the things people call me when they see me or interact with me. Waahid to me means love, unity, peace, tranquility and a whole range of nice words i can find in the dictionary to describe something that brings me serenity and contentment of heart. Waahid praises and recites nasheeds about our Creator(SWA) and our Prophet(SAW), which heart would not find contentment in doing so? I have learnt a lot from Waahid, musical terms, chords, harmonies and the list can go on. I am the happiest person simply because ALLAH has chosen me to be a part of Waahid and to do HIS work in the form of nasheeds.


2. How and when was the Waahid group formed?
It was formed through only the will of Allah (SWT). In 2006 , a concert was coming up featuring Zain Bhikha (SA) & Dawud Wharsnsby Ali (Canada) and the hosts ILM-SA met with AK who owns Cap Recording Studios requesting a local act for the concert but they wanted a performer in Arabic or English. AK had been recording Naeem in Arabic and English already. Naeem was asked to perform at the concert as he was already established in the industry, but AK felt it would be more appropriate to have a group at this function. Therefore a group was put together in a matter of three weeks! He knew Ahmad since he used to recite qiraat at various functions and he knew Nazeer from Radio Al Ansaar as well as his stage appearance doing a rap song. Farid's story was more interesting. A while back Farid came to Radio Al Ansaar where he met AK as a coincidence. Then during the time AK was looking for singers for the concert he heard Farids voice giving Azaan and told him about the concert. 3 weeks before the concert, we met and prepared 4 songs and were the opening act of the show. South Africa went crazy and thats our story. Alhamdulillah.*

 3. When the group launched a few years ago there was a lot of controversy within the Muslim community with regards to beat boxing and whether or not it is permissible within Islam. How did the group handle this issue especially since there was much pressure from the various Muslim religious authorities within the country?
We did have a problem with certain communities who did not share the same understanding as us when we began but we believed in one thing and that was Allah judges our actions by our intentions and our intentions were only to please Allah and to provide an alternative to young muslims away from the evils of the world. Subsequently the same communities are now some of our biggest supporters Alhamdulillah. Our songs share a common theme of soul and spirituality and most people when they listen to us, sense it and appreciate it.*

 4. Sami Yusuf came to South Africa a few years ago and received a luke warm response from certain sectors of the Muslim community. Having resided in the Middle East for a number of years I was quite familiar with Sami's genre of nasheeds and so it was not surprising for me. What is your opinion with regards to music in Islam and nasheeds that are sung with music?
Waahid are associated with many Islamic scholars worldwide, one of them is Sheikh Ramadaan who explains that music is a medium and provided an example of an empty glass tumbler. If he poured water into the glass there is nothing wrong with the contents or the glass. However if you put alcohol in the glass the contents become prohibited but not the glass. The glass is just the medium and so the content is what determines its prohibition or acceptance. So the musical instrument is just the medium, it is how you use the medium that defines its allowance. But Waahid will always be that bridge between those who want the music and the ones that dont. *
 Music is a topic that arouses much passionate debate in Muslim communities throughout the world. To us it is a way of passing a message that needs to be conveyed, a message of truth. Whether we like to admit it or not, music is a part of our lives, and we cannot avoid it. Our youth are being misled by the corrupt music of the West on a daily basis. For all those who would like to criticise what we do, I would like to say, provide an alternative that works.

 5. Where did you learn the art of beat boxing and how does one become a beat boxer?
As a kid I was partly deaf in one ear and hard of hearing in the other ear, but after I underwent an operation, I was fully cured. I then began to hear sounds I did not hear all the time and so I would relate any situation with the sound I heard. If I had to explain a car accident, I would say the one car came down fast *wooosh* then it was too late to slow down but the driver slammed the brakes *eeeerrrr* and then he smashed in to the guy *Gshhr!*. But about 10 years ago I met Shaheed Alkawn a fellow SA nasheed artist who was a beatboxer. and he taught me the basics. I then went on YouTube and learnt the rest. Beatboxing is easy as long as you learn the basic sounds. The B the T and the K. Put them together and you get B T K TT BB K. Try it out!*

 6. Besides being a part of a nasheed group what other qualification or profession do the group members have?
Refer to details above.*

 7. I stand to be corrected, but I do understand that two members of the group Fareed and Ahmed are reverts to Islam. How did they revert to Islam. Please enlighten the readers more about their journey into Islam.
Refer to Farids intro above *

 8. Define success. What does success mean for the group?
 Success to us is not measured by how many albums we sell, or how popular we are but its measured by the number of hearts and minds we positively change. We see a world of unity and of peace where we all are different but are united in our diversity. We want to create a positive change with our music and to provide young minds with an alternative sound if we can acheive this then we have truly succeeded. We also hope that Allah is pleased with us by using our talents in the correct way and for his pleasure. We also want to become a good muslim business following the ethics of Shariah law and being a role model to all other business.*
Success is measured in its totality. An example, it is worthless to be part of the biggest and most respectable group in the Nasheed world if you have a family life that is dysfunctional, I believe that a lot of the problems faced by Non Muslim artists today are due to a lack of balance in their lives. Therefore I wana stress that it is our duty as an Islamic group to be good role models for the youth and demonstrate to them that success is not found on stage or even at the bank, rather it is found with contentment of your heart.

9. What is the group's favourite website?
www.twitter.com  - you can learn so much in just 140 characters

10. What has been the groups most memorable performance thus far?
Nazeer: I think it was the one where we travelled to Botswana by road. I was tiring exhilirating and best of all it was fun. Ahmad and I played pool from 11pm to 5am! Exhilirating!*
Ahmad - I would also agree with what Naz just said, first time of my life, We stayed up till so late playing pool until Fajr, wooh what a time. The most memorable moments were when we had to drive to Mpumalanga and it took us 13hours instead of 9hours where our pilot behind the wheel Mr Nazjam, had taken a detour and after that long drive, we ended up still singing at 2am and then sleeping in the car. Moments which, honestly, will never be forgotten even in the years to come. A true blessing in disguise.
Naeem -  Well, the most memorable performance for me was the Meelad held in Cape Town in 2012/13. This event was attended by over 25000 people and was organised in two weeks Alhamdulillah! The wind was howling and tents were flying away but people stayed to praise the Holy Prophet (SAW). It was an absolutely beautiful sight with a sea of white kurtas and abayas as far as your eyes could see!

 11. As a team or a group where do you draw inspiration from? Who or what inspires you to create such beautiful nasheeds?
We draw inspiration from our own experiences. Nazeer loves nature so he sings about nature. AK is a deep thinker, so he prefers the deep songs like Echoes in my Mind, Fareed is a da'ee so he sings in traditional African sounds to attract africans to Islam, Naeem has experienced life and so sings about our daily struggles and Ahmad is a fun guy so he likes his beaty arabian songs. We also have other writers such as our ex manager Sister Safeeya Moosa who actually wrote the lead lyrics of the song Labbaik. There is no lack of inspiration in this world. If you look around there are injustices occurring everywhere. These stories need to be told, these people have to be heard. As Waahid we aim to tell those stories through melody!

12. As a group, apart from beat boxing and nasheeds what other topics are you most passionate about?
We are really concerned about the famine, wars and impoverishment of people and so are currently writing songs about these issues.  There is a common thread in all our songs and that is a plea for Allah (SWT) to guide us as we have transgressed. All the problems faced by the world today are the doing of man, the sooner we wake up from our slumber and accept that, the sooner we can find our Lord.

 13. This question is for each member of the group. If someone could grant you one wish and you could choose to have any skill or talent in the world, what would it be?
Nazeer: I would like to be a leader or a president who is fair, just, and who can lead his people to greatness and who is able to see the good in others and help them master their skills so that we can all be not only good muslims but good people.*
*Naeem* Hmm, I would like to be a person who provides peace and contentment to the hearts of all those who I come into contact with. I would like to end the suffering and strife of all the peoples of the world. I want to be a reliable leader whose people can be rest assured to call upon in times of need.
Ahmad  - Wow, I honestly have never been asked this question before, therefore so many things come to mind, as it is human nature to think of so many things at once in the one wish but in all honesty, I would wish for people of the world to be kind and peaceful to each other and unite as one big world united family.

 14. What are your future plans? Where does the group want to be five years down the line?
We aim to become worldwide so that we are able to put Waahid on the map. We have even started our own T Shirt and Golfer brand as well as a nasheed academy where we teach singing, writing, rapping and public speaking. We see Waahid as a worldwide Islamic brand, not just in Nasheed but in all areas of Islamic life, including, leadership, business, education and entertainment

15. Polygamous relationships? What are your thoughts on this one?
Islam allows for a man to have more than 1 wife, but it requires extreme caution and fairness. If the man is able to be fair and just in all his actions then there is no problem, but if he is not able to then he should control his desires.  An often neglected part of this issue is the happiness of the wife. Many men do not take into account the effect a second wife would have on their first wives especially considering the fact that we live in a largely non Muslim society. This is a cause of breakdown for many marriages and so my question is, is it worth it to break up one marriage to create another ? Islam allows for a man to have more than 1 wife, but it requires extreme caution and fairness. If the man is able to be fair and just in all his actions to his wives then there is no problem, but if he is not able to then he should control his desires and have 1.

16. Does the group perform at selected events only or can families hire the group for private functions as well? Kindly provide your contact details so that organizations can get in touch with you directly.
Yeah we perform at all events anywhere and anytime. We do charge a performance fee which is excluding the cost of travel, accommodation and meals if the need arises. You can contact Nazeer on 0761513334 or nazjam@gmail.com  *

 17. What advise would you give to the youth out there who wish to pursuit a career in beat boxing and nasheed singing?

The SA nasheed industry is not an easy game. Its hard to please everyone and many people offer more critism than support, but its important to value the critiscm and channel is postively so that you can improve yourself. Rome was not built overnight so have patience and most importantly keep your intentions only for Allah and you will see how you will grow Inshallah. Waahid is always available to help you so contact us. Perseverance is the key to success although the industry is growing at a rapid rate and opportunities will increase as well. There has never been a better time to get into Nasheeds!


Thank you Waahid group for taking the time to answer these questions. Desert Moon wishes you all the best in your future endeavours!!! This is definitely one of the most inspiring interviews that I have ever done. I am so honoured and proud to have interviewed a group that has made an impact globally. Thank you for giving me this opportunity.*




Tuesday, October 29, 2013

The official opening of the Seven Seas Signature Spa

This post should have been written a few days ago but my life at present is like a roller coaster ride. I am totally focused on getting our family pharmacy up and running.Hence at present I'm playing building contractor, HR manager, Stock controller along with getting through one meeting after another and in between all of this I'm still trying my best to blog and share my life events with all my blog readers.

The Seven Seas Signature Spa officially opened on the 12th of October 2013. The opening of the spa coincided with a weekend souq at the Image Lifestyle  Wedding and Conference Venue that attracted many people from far and wide. Channel Islam International was also broadcasting live from the event. The highlight of the event was undoubtedly meeting and interacting with the world famous Waahid nasheed group. Catch my exclusive interview with the group in my next post hopefully. To commemorate the opening of the spa a program was put together that included talks by various dermatological and cosmetic companies along with a fashion show. The Waahid nasheed group was roped in to entertain the crowd and my word, they performed spectacularly. Whilst the women gathered inside the conference centre for the formalities,  the dad's had an opportunity to spend quality time with the kids outside and also browse around the various stalls. My family and I got to conference centre a few hours before the official opening ceremony so that we could take a walk around the stalls. I was particularly impressed with the ice cream and cake pin cushions that were on sale along with the photography stall that specialized in magazine type picture albums. I definitely want to create a magazine family album in the future as a rememberance. Other items on sale included the usual abayas and scarves along with household accessories. I could n't believe that not one store catered for shoes when I desperately needed a pair. lol. One section of the venue was dedicated to weddings and functions where guests had an opportunity to view different table setting arrangements in line with the latest trends and fashion.Hats off to Unusual Functions for the stunning table decor. The food at Salma's food stall was absolutely delicious. Every single dish from the biryani to the kebaab and roti as well as the chicken tikka and steak burger was spiced to perfection. Well done aunty Salma for taking care of our tummies and satisfying our taste buds. I was pleasantly surprised to have met and interacted with many facebook friends who instantly recognized me. I always seem to get the same line though," OMG you look just like your facebook picture"..lol...Yes it is me ...How else am I suppose to look..,.lolol. After lunch, mom and I made our way inside the venue for the much anticipated opening ceremony program. The master of ceremonies for the afternoon was Dr. Bhabha from Beauty and Curves located in Bedfordview. I must say though that she really had a tough time being an MC considering that the hall was packed with women chit chatting at the top of their voices. As is customary in Islamic culture, the function commenced with a recitation of the Holy Quraan by Hafez Zunaid Saloojee. Thereafter there were talks presented by various dermatological companies about their range of skin care products. I personally found the talks too detailed and in depth for a Saturday afternoon. The talk that captivated me was undoubtedly by make up artist Jose de Silva. His bold style coupled with his foreign accent and gentleman like demeanour definitely caught the attention of the female crowd.."My darlings, please make sure you wash your hair four times a week..My darlings you must pamper yourself to a manicure and pedicure. My darlings you must do facials more often to give 
yourself a more youthful look.....my darlings....my darlings.....my darlings..he continued."
In between the talks, the audience had a chance to view garments from world renowned fashion houses. Models strutted their stuff on the ramp in hideous looking shoes to the tunes of famous Arabic singers like Amir Diab and Nancy Ajram. Two of the models almost took a tumble..... I  was particularly impressed with the Moda Lounge range of clothing as well as the elegant evening dresses from Dockrats clothing store in Fordsburg and Lenasia. The range of clothing by the Benoni based designer Naseema was elegant and flowing with the exception that all the designs looked similar making it a boring lacklustre range in totality. Considering that 95 percent of the audience was predominantly Muslim, I was quite disappointed with the holiday range of clothing as well as the wedding gowns. I don't think a Muslim woman would be walking down the aisle in a boob tube or parading the streets of Rome in a mini skirt. Design houses should have come up with more innovative styles to suit the needs of a modern Muslim woman. You can wear hijaab and still look chic and elegant. A woman who dresses modestly can be as sexy as a woman in a mini skirt. Guests also had an opportunity of winning prizes, such as free hair care products or a free massage treatment etc etc. The women were going crazy to collect their prizes. After all the talking and the fashion show, guests were treated to a light snack meal. The tables were laid out beautifully. I have no words to describe the sheer perfection of each and every platter on the table. The pictures speak volumes for themselves. The only disappointing bit is that mom and I did not get one snack to nibble on as Indians do not know the difference between a snack and a meal. Women greedily filled up their plates to the brim as though food was running out of fashion. Within minutes everything was swiped. I could n't believe that women from so called elite high class homes behaved in this manner.I guess its a case of " we don't eat such tasty food in our own homes so lets gobble it all up or its free chows, quick let's devour it all up and save a few pennies." lololol..I guess that's how the rich get richer!!













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