Thursday, July 28, 2011

Bedouins - The People of the Desert

Bedouins traditionally live a nomadic lifestyle, spreading from the Persian Gulf to the Atlantic Ocean, and from the borders of Turkey to Yemen. The word 'bedouin' comes from the Arab word 'Bedou' that means "desert dweller." Estimates say nomadic Bedouins constitute about one-tenth of the population of the Middle East.
Bedouin life is generally pastoral, herding camels, sheep, goats and cattle. They normally migrate seasonally, depending on grazing conditions. In winter, when there is some rain, they migrate deeper into the desert. In the hot, dry summer time, they camp around secure water sources. Bedouins define themselves as members of tribes and families. People are divided into social classes, depending on ancestry and profession. Passing from one class to another is relatively feasible, but marriage between a man and a woman of different classes is difficult.



Traditionally, the Bedouin's home, the tent, is divided into three sections by curtains: the men's section, the family section and the kitchen. In the men's area, guests are received around the hearth where the host prepares coffee on the fire. This is the center of Bedouin social life. Tea is served as a welcome drink; coffee is usually prepared after the meal and is the last drink before the guest leaves. The serving of food and drink represents the generous hospitality of the host. The men pass the evening trading news and discussing their animals. Separated from them by a curtain, the women gather in the family area and kitchen along with their small children to bake bread and prepare the main meal. A dinner of rice and chunks of mutton or lamb are then served to the gathered guests.
Women occupy a very important position in Bedouin society. Not only do they raise the children, herd the sheep, milk the animals, cook, spin yarn and make the clothes, but they also weave the cloth that constitutes the tent. The Bedouin men gather around the fire, sharing stories and sipping coffee. They might discuss falconry, the saluki greyhound and Arabian stallions, all animals the Bedouins are credited with breeding, as well as other matters of importance to the tribe. Traditionally, one of the men recites poetry or sings. To mark the end of the evening, the host burns incense in a mabkhara (incense burner) passing it to each of his guests to inhale and fan their clothes. Poetry has been a central cultural form of expression for the Bedouins throughout their history. In early centuries of Islamic history, Bedouin poetry represented the ideal standard for other literary achievements, as well as for the Arabic language. The traditional foods of the Bedouin are dairy products and meat. Bedouins sell and barter products in order to obtain agricultural food from sedentary peoples.
Bedouin society has a strict code of honor which dictates proper behavior for all members, including children. Because of the demanding nature of the Bedouin lifestyle, children are expected to assume a considerable amount of responsibility in order to help their families survive. Although modernization has changed the Bedouin lifestyle somewhat, emphasis is placed on teaching children to carry on traditional ways of life, and the advancement of modern technology is not considered important to children's education.

Modern societies have made the traditional Bedouin lifestyle less attractive since as it is demanding and often dangerous. Because of that, many tribes have settled in urban areas. It is not uncommon to see a young Bedouin building a house and living in it; however, his parents will pitch their tent in the garden, where they will live very happily until the end of their days. Governments have a strong tendency to regulate Nomadic lifestyles since it is only then that taxation works in some parts of the Middle East. Providing services for the people also works best in an urban setting. Today, the Arab world has one of the highest rates of urbanization in the world.
Islam's prophet Mohammed (saw) was born and raised in the Bedouin tribe of the Quraish. The Qur'an, first revealed to Mohammed (saw), was later written and compiled in the Arabic language. The first converts to Islam came from the Bedouin tribes living in and around Makka. Therefore, Islam is embedded and deeply rooted in Bedouin culture. Although there are pockets of Christians in Bedouin tribes, by and large the word Bedouin is synonymous with being a follower of Islam. Prayer is an integral part of Bedouin life. As there are no formal mosques in the desert, they pray where they are, facing Makka and performing the ritual washing, preferably with water. Since water is not always readily available, they 'wash' with sand instead.

Within the hospital setting and during my trip to Madain Saleh I have had the opportunity to interact with Bedouins.I must say that they are certainly the most humblest and hospitable people that I've ever met. They lead a very simple life yet they are very happy and content with the little that they have. They are not caught up in the modern world at all. In fact being in their company reminded me of how it must have been during the time of the Prophet Muhammed (SAW).Many of them do not like to frequent the cities as they are afraid of the traffic and  the hundreds of cars on the road.They find it difficult to cross the roads or even drive within the cities.In the area around Madain Saleh I noticed many Bedouin women driving lorry type vehicles and also riding camels.Many of the Bedouins are afraid of urbanization as it is a threat to their lifestyle and way of life. I remember last year whilst driving in the desert with my dear friend Hassan and his family we encountered a Bedouin family residing in the desert. Their Arabic dialect was so different that even for someone who understands Arabic it was difficult to decipher the words. The old elderly Bedouin man looked upset though and then we realized that he was upset that the Saudi government is contemplating developing a road that would run very close to where these Bedouins reside.He kept on saying why cant they be left alone in peace. They do not wish to change and they are very happy not being caught up with the fast moving world that lacks peace and contentment.

Last week at the hospital I met a Bedouin man with his son. They looked uncomfortable being in the city. They traveled many miles getting to the hospital.Neither the man nor the son could read or write Arabic although they spoke Arabic fluently.I had also met a Bedouin man who was the Imaam of a masjid. He had memorized the entire Quraan by listening to recitations of the Quraan on a radio during his childhood. He was also illiterate and hence could neither read nor write the Arabic language. I noticed that many Bedouins do not know how to use a western high toilet. They find it strange and so when they are admitted to hospital they have to be shown how to use the toilet. Many of them would use very little water to shower or bath and I guess this is a habit that stems from residing in the desert where water preservation is of primary concern. The Bedouins have adopted many customs that goes back to the time of prophet Muhammed (saw). Many of them would tie a cloth around their tummies filled with stones to create weight and curb hunger. A thin string would also be tied sometimes around their tummies to prevent them from getting fat or picking up weight. The string is tied tightly around the tummy so naturally if the person gains weight there would be a certain level of discomfort and so naturally the person would try eating less thereby reducing the weight and hence removing the source of discomfort.Many Bedouin women have tattoo like markings on their faces very similar to the Armenian Turkish women you would find visiting Makkah or Medina. The tattoos indicate the level of status within the tribe, possibly the wife or daughters of the leader of the tribe.


There are some Bedouin tribes that have strange customs and traditions that goes completely against the teachings of Islam.One such tribe resides in an  area just outside the city of  Al Kharj.
The Kharj region is defined largely by the wide valley known as Wadi al-Sahba (sometimes known as "Wadi al-Kharj"), where the floods of many other wadis, such as Wadi Hanifa, are deposited. In addition, there were historically several fresh water springs (called asyah or uyun) that flowed towards the surface through apertures in the earth. As a result, the Kharj district has historically been one of the richest locations in Arabia in water resources, and has supported grain production since ancient times. However, springs of al-Kharj, like those of neighboring al-Aflaj have completely dried up in the last two decades.
In previous time periods, the district was more often known as Jaww, Jaww al-Yamamah, or Al-Khadharim, though the name "Al-Kharj" was also known. The pre-Islamic legend of the tribes of Tasm and Jadis, is set in the Kharj district. At the beginning of Islam, al-Kharj was inhabited by the Bakr tribes, especially the Banu Hanifa. In 862, the Alid clan of the Ukhaydhirites fled to al-Kharj from the Hejaz, and made its main city, Al-Khidhrima, the capital of a small state.
In the 18th century, the Kharj district was, along with the town of Riyadh, the most stubborn foe of the First Saudi State, and was among the very last areas of Najd to fall under Saudi rule. However, the district later became among the most loyal regions to the Al Saud, providing refuge to Turki ibn Abdallah from the Egyptian occupation in the 1820s, and joining Ibn Saud's campaigns in the early 20th century at an early date.
Today, Kharj houses a governmental farm, among the oldest of its kind in the country. Kharj oasis produces dates, vegetables (including carrots, cucumbers, tomatoes and lettuce) and fruits (including oranges, melons and grapes). There is also livestock and poultry, as well as horse breeding. There are also large industries for processed food. Kharj has excellent connections to other urban centres in the country, using the system of highways, railroad and airports of the capital, Riyadh, which is 50 km northwest. Kharj lies on the route to the regions of the cities Abha, 800 km, Khamis Mushayt, 775 km, and Najran, 800 km, all southwest. Kharj is located to an area of deep water pools. There is also a water tower with a restaurant.

On the outskirts of Al kharj is a tribe whose customs are strange with regards  to women. The women folk of this tribe cover their faces completely in the presence of males and females.Their husbands have no idea what their faces look like. In fact their tradition is so bizarre that when one of the woman of the tribe came to Riyadh city and passed away in a gathering not even her husband could identify her face as he did not know what his wife looked like.In a separate incident, a husband tried removing his wife's face covering whilst she was asleep and suddenly she awoke and then decided to divorce her husband the next morning which according to her was due to a heinous sin that he had committed.Young girls start covering their faces from a young age following the footsteps of their mothers and grand mothers. We were invited to a wedding in Riyadh and many women from this tribe were invited to the wedding. I found it most odd that these women were adorned with sleeveless, eye popping outfits but had a face covering as well even though it was an all women's affair.

Though some of the customs come across as strange and ancient, the Bedouins are certainly a lovely, vibrant group of people you will ever meet. So the next time you visit the beautiful desert and come across Bedouins residing in their tents enjoying a peaceful life, don't forget to stop and say hi.They are extremely friendly, hospitable people who do enjoy meeting and entertaining visitors from the city and sharing their culture and traditions with people who are foreign to their own way of life!!!!


Bedouin Proverbs

1. As the camel falls to its knees, more knives are drawn.

2. At the narrow passage, there is no brother and no friend.

3. He who shares my bread and salt is not my enemy.

4. I against my brother, I and my brother against our cousin, I, my brother and our cousin against the neighbors, All of us against the foreigner.

5. I give thee flight without wings.

6. Keep women far away from song, because it is a summons to adultery.

7. Knowledge is light. � and all who contribute bring light to our world.

8. My father rode a camel, I shall ride a pick-up and my son will drive a Cadillac; however my grandson will drive a donkey.

9. My treasures do not chink or glitter. They gleam in the sun and neigh in the night.

10. The broth is cooking, and now we have to act as one.

11. The lightly burdened shall be saved.

12. Truth may walk through the world unarmed.

13. When the shooting starts climb on your camel and head for the mountaintops.

14. When you sleep in a house your thoughts are as high as the ceiling, when you sleep outside they are as high as the stars.



Wednesday, July 27, 2011

South African 'corpse' wakes up‏.......


 I read this article last night and it left me in stitches of laughter.
By AFP 
A 50-year-old South African man thought to be dead woke up in a chilly morgue on Sunday and shouted to be let out, scaring off two attendants who thought he was a ghost, local media reported.

"His family thought he had died," health spokesman Sizwe Kupelo told the Sapa news agency.

"The family called a private undertaker who took what they thought was a dead body to the morgue, but the man woke up inside the morgue on Sunday at 5:00 pm and screamed, demanding to be taken out of the cold place."

This caused two mortuary attendants on duty to flee the building in the small town of Libode in the rural Eastern Cape as they thought it was a ghost.

After calling for help and returning to find the man alive, an ambulance was sent to fetch the man who had "been exposed to extreme cold for nearly 24 hours" said Kupelo.

He said the public should not assume that a sick person had died and contact a mortuary, the report said.

"Doctors, emergency workers and the police are the only people who have a right to examine the patients and determine if they are dead or not."

Tuesday, July 26, 2011

The Magical Month in the Kingdom

The month of Ramadhaan is said to be the "spring season" of the Islamic calendar for over one billion Muslims across the globe. Muslims think of it as a kind of tune-up for their spiritual lives. It is a month marked by blessings, fasting and charity.

Fasting is one of the five pillars of Islam. The others are: belief & testimony in The One God and that the Prophet Muhammed (SAW) is the servant and final messenger of God (Shahaadah); prayer (Salah) - five times a day at its appointed times; alms -giving (Zakaat) – approx. 2.5% of fixed assets annually; and pilgrimage (Hajj) to Makkah tul mukarrama at least once in a lifetime if you can afford it.

Ramadhaan has many benefits. Among  these, the most important is that it is a means of learning self-control. Ramadhaan is also a time for giving charity, purifying one's behavior,doing good deeds, reciting excessive quraan and being engrossed in the worship of God Almighty.

Fasting is also a way of sympathizing with the poor and those who are less fortunate than we are. It conditions us to be thankful and to appreciate all the numerous bounties and blessings that God Almighty has bestowed upon us.Fasting is also beneficial to the health and provides a break in the cycle of rigid habits or overindulgence.

When the fast ends (the first day of the tenth month of the Islamic calendar –Shawwal) it is celebrated for three days in a holiday called 'Eid-ul-Fitr (the Feast of Fast Breaking). Gifts are exchanged. Friends and family gather to pray in congregation and also to partake in a variety of meals.

Whilst voluntary fasting is recommended for Muslims throughout the year, during Ramadhaan fasting becomes obligatory. Sick people, travelers, pregnant and menstruating women are exempted from fasting but are required to fast at a later stage when they are able to do so, health permitting of course.

The start of the month is based on a combination of physical sightings of the moon and astronomical calculations. The practice varies from place to place, some places relying heavily on sighting reports and others totally on calculations. In Saudi Arabia and South Africa, all muslim  communities follow the decision of the local Islamic organizations, which accepts bonafide sightings of the new moon anywhere within the country as the start of the new month. The end of the month, marked by the celebration of 'Eid-ul-Fitr  is similarly determined.

Fasting commences at the break of dawn and ceases at sun set. During the day, Muslims totally abstain from food, drink, smoking, and sexual relations. The usual practice is to have a pre-fast meal (suhoor) before dawn and a post/break-fast meal (fatoor) after sunset. 
Islam follows a lunar calendar which means that the months of the year are measured according to the revolutions of the moon around the earth (each month begins with the sighting of the new moon).
Because the Islamic lunar calendar (hijri) is approximately 11 days shorter than the solar or Gregorian calendar, Islamic holidays "move" each year.
This lunar calendar gives every month an opportunity of rotating through every season completing a cycle in which every month does not exceed 29 or 30 days.
Thus, since Ramadhaan begins on August 1st or 2nd this  year, the next year it will begin around July 20th and so forth. The entire cycle takes around 35 years. In this way, the length of the day, and thus the fasting period, varies in length from place to place over the years. Every Muslim, no matter where he or she lives, will see an average Ramadhan day of approximately 13.5 hours.
One may eat and drink at any time during the night "until you can plainly distinguish a white thread from a black thread by the daylight: then keep the fast until night." [2:187]
The good that is acquired through the fast can be destroyed by five things –the telling of a lie, slander, denouncing someone behind their back, a false oath, greed or covetousness.
These are considered offensive at all times, but are most offensive during the Fast of Ramadhan.

All Muslims try getting closer to God Almighty during the last ten days of Ramadhaan by engaging in good deeds as these ten days are considered to be a period and a time of tremendous spiritual power.The night on which the first verses of the Qur'an were revealed to the Prophet Muhammed (saw), known as the Night of Power (Lailat ul-Qadr), is generally taken to be the 27th night of the month. The Qur'an states that this night is better than a thousand months. Therefore many Muslims spend the entire night in prayer or engaging in the recitation of the holy Quraan.

Ramadhaan is also known as the 'month of the Quraan', as it is during this month that the Holy Quraan was revealed to the Prophet Muhammed (saw).During this month Huffath (Muslims who have memorized the entire Holy Quraan) recite chapters of the Quraan, on a daily basis during the taraweeh prayers which usually occurs after the compulsory Esha prayers, which is approximately an hour and a half after sunset, for the duration of the month (approx. 30 consecutive days), until they have completed the Quraan in its entirety.Muslims believe this is one of the ways in which the Quraan has remained intact since revelation more than 1400 years ago.

It is a common practice for Muslims to break their fast at sunset with dates and water, following the custom of Prophet Muhammad (pbuh). This is followed by the sunset prayer, which is followed by fatoor. Since Ramadhaan emphasizes community aspects and since everyone eats iftar at the same time, Muslims often invite one another to partake in the Ramadhaan evening meal. Some Muslims find that they eat less when breaking their fast during Ramadhaan than at other times due to stomach contraction. Since Ramadhaan is considered to be an auspicious month in the Islamic  calendar, special meals and savouries are also prepared during this month like Samboosas coupled with an assortment of home made beverages and desserts.

Muslims use many phrases in various languages to congratulate one another for the completion of the obligation of fasting and the 'Eid-ul-Fitr festival. Here is a sampling of them:
"Kullu aam wa antum bi-khair insha Allah" (May you be well throughout the year God willing) - Arabic
"Elveda, ey Ramazan" (Farewell, O Ramadhan) - Turkish
"'Eid mubarak (A Blessed 'Eid)" - universal

On a more personal note, the best Ramadhaan that I have ever experienced was certainly here in the Kingdom of Saudi Arabia.Two years ago my family and I spent a total of five weeks between the cities of Makkah and Medina during the holy month of Ramadhaan. It was definitely a dream come true.
Thousands of Muslims breaking their fast together, little children pulling you by the hand to join their families in breaking the fast and partaking in their meals and almost more than a million people praying together in unison submitting to One Divine God was simply a moment that I will never forget. The atmosphere here in the Kingdom during the month of Ramadhaan is electrifying.Usually all Muslim staff only work for 6 hours each day. During the day you wouldn't really find people outside. Most people are indoors sleeping and just simply staying out of the scorching heat. Temperatures here can soar as high as 50 degrees during peak summer.As the sun sets and its time to break the fast the city comes alive again. Many Arab families would prefer breaking their fast in a restaurant or hotel that offers a special Ramadhaan buffet menu. I must say its quite fun sampling different cuisines especially when you in the company of really good friends and family.
I would now like to take this opportunity in wishing all my friends and family across the globe a wonderful Ramadhaan Kareem!!!May the Almighty accept your fast and prayers during this blessed month and may it also be a time for reflecting on our inner selves.Let this month be a month where we can all achieve and attain high levels of spirituality. Let this be a month of sharing, giving and a start towards bettering ourselves in every way. Let us all try making a concerted effort towards doing good, helping others and staying away from all activities that goes against Gods will.!!!


 

 

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Saturday, July 23, 2011

A Match Truly Made in Heaven



So last night was my first encounter with a Saudi couple that is HIV positive.Now you may be asking yourself so what's the big deal. Well in this part of the world it is a big deal simply because many of the HIV positive people living here are what I term as "faceless". They usually prefer being treated at home through a home health care based facility and usually all their medications are sent directly to their homes through the hospital DHL delivery system.
In South Africa I have dealt with hundreds of HIV positive patients throughout my career. I was one of the pharmacists who initiated the HIV clinic at Leratong hospital. But somehow meeting a Saudi couple that were both HIV positive was quite different.And the reason it felt so different was because they were open and honest about their medical condition.They spoke about HIV as though they had the common  cold or a flu.The man contracted HIV through a blood transfusion during his childhood after being involved in a motor vehicle accident and the young woman contracted HIV at birth after both her parents were infected with the virus.She said that she had never anticipated getting married and leading a normal married life with the exception that they both have unanimously agreed not to bring a child into this world. They both oozed with so much of positive energy, laughing, joking and just being themselves.They apparently met at an HIV workshop that both their families attended."It was love at first sight",  he said after seeing her beautiful emerald green eyes."That was all he could see of course", she interrupted whilst laughing.
 The mind definitely has the power to conquer any disease.What usually seems to happen though when a patient is told that they have cancer or HIV, they immediately go into a phase of denial and with denial comes depression and anxiety that by the time the patient has in fact made peace with themselves and accepted their medical condition much time has already elapsed and the patient is far too weak physically to combat the disease.Negative thinking has the power to eat your body away.If the patient is positive from the beginning, going through life's daily activities in a somewhat normal manner miracles do happen. I certainly seen that last night. As the saying goes, "the mind is its own place, and in itself  can make a heaven of hell or a hell of heaven".The couple I met last night certainly made me realize that has a society we are quick to judge people,create stigmas and may be even look down at people with HIV. It is about time that society embraces people that are HIV positive.We need to change peoples mindsets.Some people believe that if a patient is HIV positive it is due to their own risky promiscuous sexual life and so this is a punishment from God. Whilst that is true, the mistake is done. We can not turn back the clock and change whats already done and over with. Instead of letting these patients waste away through regret and depression, through feeling sad and useless, we need to accept these individuals and start treating them as normal human beings. We need to fill their lives with happiness so that they can adopt a positive outlook to life and sometimes just changing a persons attitude is enough to pave their way to better health and full cure in some cases.

As I walked home last night, making my way down the long deserted corridor, stopping halfway to have a cup of Arabic coffee (Qahwa) with my friend Sultan, I couldn't help but think about the happy couple I had encountered earlier.They were an inspiration to me. Images of their bright beaming faces just kept on appearing in front of me and so there was only one thought that came to mind and that was, they are truly a match made in heaven!!!! May the Almighty always keep them happy and shower His choicest blessings upon them wherever they are.........

Friday, July 22, 2011

Attitude leads to Altitude


A close friend of mine sent me this article through email. I thought it was quite an inspirational piece of writing and hence I decided to share it with all of you.I do not know who wrote this article and I certainly do not take credit for it.

Ayoob was the kind of person who would always amaze you. He was always in a good mood and always had something positive to say. When someone would ask him how he was doing, he would reply, "If I were any better, I would be twins!"
He was a unique manager because he had several waiters who had followed him around from restaurant to restaurant. The reason the waiters followed Ayoob was because of his attitude. He was a natural motivator. If an employee was having a bad day Ayoob was there telling the employee how to look on the positive side of the situation.
Seeing this style really made me curious, so one day I went up to Ayoob and asked him, "I don't get it! You can't be a positive person all of the time. How do you do it?"
Ayoob replied, "Each morning I wake up and say to myself, ' Ayoob, Allah has given you two choices today. You can choose to be in a good mood or you can choose to be in a bad mood.' I choose to be in a good mood. Each time something bad happens, I can choose to be a victim or I can choose to learn from it. I choose to learn from it. Every time someone comes to me complaining, I can choose to accept their complaining or I can point out the positive side of life. I choose the positive side of life."
"Yeah, right, it's not that easy," I protested.
"Yes, it is," Ayoob said. "Life is all about choices Allah has given us. When you cut away all the junk, every situation is a choice. You choose how you react to situations. You choose how people will affect your mood. You choose to be in a good mood or bad mood. The bottom line: Allah has given you an option how you live your life!"
I reflected on what Ayoob said. Soon thereafter, I left the restaurant industry to start my own business. We lost touch, but I often thought about him when I made a choice about life before reacting to it.
Several years later, I heard that Ayoob did something you are never supposed to do in a restaurant business: he left the back door open one morning and was held up at gunpoint by three armed robbers. While trying to open the safe, his hand, shaking from nervousness, slipped off the combination. The robbers panicked and shot him. Alhamdulillah , Ayoob was found relatively quickly and rushed to the local hospital’s trauma centre.
After 18 hours of surgery and weeks of intensive care, Ayoob was released from the hospital with fragments of the bullets still in his body.
I saw Ayoob about six months after the accident. When I asked him how he was, he replied, "Alhamdulillah , Allah is so Great and so Merciful” and then he added “If I were any better, I'd be twins. Wanna see my scars?"
I declined to see his wounds, but did ask him what had gone through his mind as the robbery took place. "The first thing that went through my mind was that I should have locked the back door," Ayoob replied. "Then, as I lay on the floor, I remembered that Allah had given me two choices: I could choose to live, or I could choose to die. I chose to live. By the Will and Acceptence of Allah I choose to live and Allah accepted my dua"
"Weren't you scared? Did you lose consciousness?" I asked.
Ayoob continued, "The paramedics were great. They kept telling me I was going to be fine. But when they wheeled me into the emergency room and I saw the expressions on the faces of the doctors and nurses, I got really scared. In their eyes, I read, 'He's a dead man.'
"I knew I needed to take action."
"What did you do?" I asked.
"Well, there was a big, burly nurse shouting questions at me," said Ayoob. "She asked if I was allergic to anything. 'Yes,' I replied. The doctors and nurses stopped working as they waited for my reply. I took a deep breath and yelled, 'Bullets!' Over their laughter, I told them. 'I am choosing to live. Operate on me as if I am alive, not dead."
Ayoob lived thanks to Allah who made available skilled doctors at this critical moment and also because of his amazing attitude that Allah had given him. I learned from him that every day we have the choice to live fully.

Attitude, after all, is so important! We may not be feeling happy or at ease at the moment, however we can still show a smile on our face or share a few friendly words and kind gestures. Often times, it is simply our attitudes that can influence someone or inspire someone to seek Islam. It is so paramount to live in obedience to Allah, but it is not just the service to others and the code we follow that we must keep in check, it is also the attitude we carry along with all of our actions. It only takes a second to affect a person in a bad or good way, and this may very well depend not on your actions or deeds, but simply upon the attitude you have at that second. If you carry a frown walking into a house where there are guests, they may feel un-welcomed. The frown may only last a few moments, but that will be long enough to leave a bad impression on some hearts.

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The Messenger of Allah Muhammad (Sallallaho alaihe wasallam) has said: "Almighty Allah says, 'I treat my slave (man) according to his expectations from Me, and I am with him when he remembers me" [Hadith-qudsi]  



A good positive Attitude in this world will raise you to a high Altitude in Paradise

Thursday, July 21, 2011

A Strange Encounter


Ever heard the phrase, "No party is a party without the booze, women and music"...After thirty years of existence in this big wide world I still fail to see the logic behind this recipe of doom and disaster. So whilst taking a jog with a colleague of mine during the early parts of the morning around the compound, just before the morning prayers(Fajr salaah), we meet up with our friend from the security department who was having an altercation with three blonde American women(blond bimbos in my opinion). It was pretty obvious that they were stone drunk and hence they were making a complete fool of themselves. The guard offered to assist them back to their apartments.Whilst walking to the apartment the one woman decides to open up her a'baya and naturally there was absolutely no clothes underneath with the exception of unmentionables. The second woman(giggling away like a school girl) opened up her handbag and started waving a sex toy in a provocative manner to the security guard and the third woman blatantly asked the guard to engage in sexual intercourse with her.So once the guard drops them off at their respective rooms he runs back with three cups of coffee. He tells us how can these "loose" women be treating our patients. Do they not have a sense of shame and decency or self respect. How can the world respect women like these when they have no respect for themselves. Is n't it shocking for professional women to behave in this lewd, cheap manner?
I then started thinking about what he said. These are the same type of  women that the western world deems as liberated and free.Naturally a woman that is adorned in Hijaab (a scarf) or a veil is viewed by western standards as backward, stupid and uneducated.A woman in the west is judged based on outer adornment and so as proven by statistics the sluttier she dresses the more successful she will be within the corporate environment irrespective of how knowledgeable she really is.I thank God, that I am a Muslim woman. I will not trade my hijaab, my Islamic culture and lifestyle for anyone.I am proud to cover myself and give myself the respect a woman deserves.What is sad though is that this whole female revolution that rocked the west is trying to make its way here in the Middle East as well. With America being Saudi Arabia's closest ally, it doesn't surprise me that there is a strong push towards promoting a culture whereby Saudi women fit in with the western ideal of how a woman should be.What goes on within the compounds is shocking. Drug and alcohol fueled raucous parties are nothing new to compound life.Sexual promiscuity is rife and many a time women fall pregnant and then resort to backstreet abortions or simply leave the country.Yes folks, this is the reality of many expat women living here.Would I trade my lifestyle to fit in with the western concept of how a woman should be.. The answer is..HELL NO.. I rather be portrayed as backward and uneducated rather than making a complete ass of myself in public..So much for western ideals.



Monday, July 18, 2011

The Great Swine Flu Hoax

Article written by Mike Adams

"The great swine flu hoax of 2009 is now falling apart at the seams as one country after another unloads hundreds of millions of doses of unused swine flu vaccines. No informed person wants the injection anymore, and the entire fear-based campaign to promote the vaccines has now been exposed as outright quackery and propaganda."
Even doctors are now calling the pandemic a complete hoax. As reported on Fox News, Dr. Wolfgang Wodarg, a leading health authority in Europe, says that drug companies "organized a 'campaign of panic' to put pressure on the World Health Organization (WHO) to declare a pandemic. He believes it is 'one of the greatest medicine scandals of the century,' and he has called for an inquiry."

H1N1 swine flu was never dangerous, and it never should have been escalated to a level-six pandemic in the first place. It was all a big marketing scam whose purpose was to simply sell vaccines. (And the CDC and WHO were in on it...)

And it worked! Big Pharma made out with billions of dollars in profits for a useless vaccine that's now being dumped by the truck load. These vaccines were, of course, paid for with taxpayer dollars, making the Great Swine Flu Hoax of 2009 nothing more than an elaborate financial scam whose goal was to transfer wealth from the People to the shareholders of Big Pharma.
In just the fourth quarter of 2009, GlaxoSmithKline shipped $1.4 billion worth of vaccines.

That's $1.4 billion worth of taxpayer dollars, by the way. Dollars that could have been spent on nutrition or real health education. $1.4 billion worth of free vitamin D supplements would have done far more to protect public health than vaccines could ever hope to accomplish.

Wall Street hucksters have nothing on Big Pharma, the CDC and the WHO, all of which conspired to mislead the public and generate irrational fear in order to make money selling people vaccine shots they never needed in the first place.
The drug companies raked in billions of dollars in revenues while providing a product that offered absolutely no net reduction in mortality. In fact, as the long-term side effects of the vaccines remain unknown, it could turn out that the vaccines actually result in a net increase in mortality.

Meanwhile, countless people were harmed by the swine flu vaccine frenzy (it's "countless" because nobody's counting). In addition to those who were nearly paralyzed after receiving the vaccine shots, grade school staffers in Massachusetts who lined up to receive swine flu vaccine shots were instead injected with insulin.
Total swine flu deaths for 2009 were far lower than the number of deaths from regular seasonal flu. And yet it turns out that thousands of Americans who died from the swine flu had been previously injected with the vaccines  In fact, according to calculations derived from official CDC estimates, thousands of vaccinated Americans died from swine flu anyway. The vaccines, it seems, don't really work after all. You're just as safe doing nothing. Here in Saudi Arabia three deaths were reported supposedly from swine flu which naturally created panic and sent hundreds of patients to various hospitals throughout the Kingdom  to be vaccinated. But what the media did not tell the public was that the three patients who died were immuno-compromised in the first place.Two of them were in ICU connected to various artificial breathing devices and the the third patient was old with various other health complications.It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out that there was something drastically fishy about the whole H1N1 debacle. Usually prior to any medication being released on the market it undergoes years of clinical trials. First it is tested on animals and then it is tested on human beings in various different parts of the world. The H1N1 vaccine came into the market over a short space of time.When questioned about the ingredients of the vaccine, the manufacturing company refused to divulge this information. Health care workers at various hospitals were asked to be vaccinated with the new H1N1 vaccine. As a health care professional myself I refused to be vaccinated with a product that has no clear clinical data. Many of my doctor colleagues refused to be vaccinated as well. A good doctor friend of mine told me that some of his patients who took the vaccine reported various degrees of adverse side effects that ranged from rash, skin irritabiliy, blurred vision, pain in the hands and feet, sluggish movement.

The bottom line is, getting the vaccine may harm your health. Outspoken Dr. Wodarg says that the full extent of the damage from the insufficiently-tested vaccines may not be known for years. "The vaccine developed by Novartis was produced in a bioreactor from cancerous cells, a technique that had never been used until now," he says.
Just what we need, huh? Cancer cells being injected into the population as part of a vaccine campaign.

The Swine Flu hoax has fizzled out, and countries like Greece, France and the UK have cancelled orders for vaccines that they now realize won't be needed  But even the fizzling of this hoax doesn't mean it was a failure from the point of view of Big Pharma.

The swine flu hoax was a huge success not only for drug company profits, but also for certain influential individuals including Dr Julie Gerberding, former head of the CDC who has now accepted a high-paying job
as the president of Merck's global vaccine operations.
One minute you're running the CDC, warning the country about a pandemic while urging everybody to get vaccinated, and the next minute you're running the for-profit vaccine division of the world's largest drug company. Amazing how that works, huh?





Thursday, July 14, 2011

Saudi Arabia faces hidden Aids problem

Article written by Hassan.M.Fattah
Being gay in Saudi Arabia is hard enough. But for a growing number of Saudis like Feisal, middle-aged, gay and H.I.V.positive, life is a tangle of regret and fear.“You live in constant fear of being found out and attacked,” said Feisal, who spoke on condition that only his middle name be used, for fear of discrimination. “I’m sure a lot of people would think I deserve what I have if they knew about it.”If not for a mixture of Saudi doctors, social workers and advocates for AIDS patients who have pushed the government to tackle the disease more openly and encouraged patients to fight for their rights, Feisal’s situation would be even more dire. But change is slowly taking place.For years Saudi Arabia kept its growing AIDS problem hidden. Statistics on the disease were sealed in envelopes and guarded like national secrets. In mosques, imams spoke of AIDS as the “wrath of God” brought upon people who committed “sexual deviancy.”Now, the government is opening up. In June, the Ministry of Health announced that more than 10,000 people in Saudi Arabia were H.I.V.-positive or had AIDS, including nearly 600 children. The numbers appear to show a significant increase in infection over 2004, when 7,800 cases were reported, and 2003, when 6,700 cases were reported.Officials say that better reporting is the reason for the growing numbers. But many doctors say even the latest figures are off, with the real numbers likely to be far higher in this nation of 27 million people. One physician who has treated many patients who have been hiding their condition or were unaware of it estimated that the real number could be as high as 150 000.Some years back, the government passed legislation protecting the privacy of people who were ill and guaranteeing their right to work, which provided some protection to AIDS patients. Saudi citizens with AIDS have also long had the right to free medical care, and today receive expensive anti-retroviral drugs without charge.But the rights and protections are only for Saudi citizens. More than three-quarters of the reported H.I.V. cases are of foreign residents. Foreigners living here found to be H.I.V.-positive are typically imprisoned and then deported.Fortunately for Feisal, he is a Saudi citizen. “I have to praise the government,” he said. “We get the drugs for free, the medical care for free, and the treatment is confidential.”But Feisal said that nothing is being done to build acceptance of people with AIDS, much less homosexuality.Indeed, the lingering challenge for most AIDS patients is their acceptance by society. Ever since the first case was diagnosed here in 1984, the disease has challenged social and religious taboos. Women began to be infected by their husbands, who contracted the disease on trips abroad and, increasingly, inside the country. Children, too, were born infected, and soon the numbers became hard to ignore.In this highly conservative Muslim nation, where women are forbidden to drive and talk of sex is taboo, even traditional efforts at AIDS prevention face challenges. There is little talk of condom use and safe sex; outreach is focused on abstinence and fear of God.A growing movement of AIDS patients, doctors and social workers is putting emphasis on teaching Saudis about the disease, though, to help AIDS patients live more normal lives.


The King Faisal Specialist Hospital and Research Center here in the capital now holds regular public discussions on AIDS and how to live with it. Doctors like Abdullah al-Hokail, who has worked on AIDS at the hospital since the 1980’s, appears regularly on Saudi television to explain the effects of the disease and to preach safe sex.“The main problem here is not the disease itself,” said Muneera al-Dahhan, a clinical counselor at King Faisal Hospital, the top AIDS treatment center in the country. “It is the tough view of society. People see this as the result of sexual behavior that is unacceptable in our society and are unable to accept it.”Many other Muslim countries have begun similar programs after decades of underreporting incidence rates. Religious leaders long credited Islam and the region’s conservative culture, which forbids premarital sex, for the low incidence of AIDS. But most clinicians inside and outside the region long suspected that local health agencies were reporting incomplete numbers.When Rami al-Harithi stood before television cameras at a commemoration of World Aids Day in the Saudi capital last year, he became one of the first AIDS patients to come out in the open.“I wanted to change people’s view of H.I.V.,” said Mr. Harithi, whose story has attracted sympathy throughout the country. A hemophiliac, Mr. Harithi contracted H.I.V. when he was 8 years old. “Just as I’d expected, people were surprised to see me as just a normal guy inflicted with this disease.”

Mr. Harithi has become something of a celebrity here, appearing on almost every Saudi television and satellite channel, profiled in newspapers and invited to speak at medical symposiums. As an advocate he has sought to deliver one consistent message: AIDS patients are nothing to be afraid of and deserve their rights.“I’m not trying to get hugs and kisses by going public,’’ he said. “I just want to ensure that my rights at work and in life are guaranteed and that I will continue to get the care I need.” Other AIDS patients jealously note that the specifics of Mr. Harithi’s case have allowed him to lead a more normal life than they can. For those who contracted the disease sexually, especially those in Saudi Arabia’s homosexual underworld, life often proves far lonelier.“He’s excusably positive,” said one patient who has kept in touch with Mr. Harithi, speaking on condition of anonymity to preserve his privacy. “Public sympathy is with him because of the way he contracted the disease; it wasn’t through sex. They wouldn’t have been as nice otherwise.”For men like Feisal, who tested H.I.V.-positive five years ago, the options are markedly different. He attended college in the United States, where he enjoyed an avowedly raucous gay sex life, but returned to Saudi Arabia where homosexuality was a crime and became closeted. He was trying out for a job when a friend warned him that it would entail a blood and urine test. He decided to test independently first, and found that he was infected with H.I.V.Even other gay men have rejected him, he said. He used to frequent a gay Arab Internet chat room. But when he admitted that he was H.I.V. positive to one user, he said, he was banned from one of the sessions.“I did this to myself and take responsibility for what happened,” he said. “If I was a citizen of the U.S. or of Europe, I would want to live. But here there’s no gay life, much less an H.I.V.-positive life.”The latest efforts have made a difference but only a small one, many AIDS patients say.“There is a war against the disease,” said one man, who contracted the disease after an encounter with a prostitute in the United States years ago and who spoke on the condition of anonymity out of embarrassment. “They accept the sick, but don’t want to deal with them as people.”

Source:
http://www.nytimes.com/2006/08/08/world/middleeast/08saudi.html?_r=1&pagewanted=all




Tuesday, July 12, 2011

Drug addicts playing havoc with family life

By Maha Sami Aboulola
JEDDAH – When looking for a bride for their son, one of the most important considerations for Saudi families is the reputation of the bride’s family, which is based on centuries-old Saudi tradition. Reema Abdulhadi, 31, a private sector employee, has been forced to join the ranks of the Kingdom’s spinsters despite her beautiful face. A large number of suitors come to ask for her hand, but they never come back after the first visit. “I am a well educated girl from a good family but, unfortunately, my father is a drug addict who steals and is in and out of jail because of his addiction,” she said.Abdulhadi and many other girls have been suffering in silence because of the addiction of a member of their family, being unable to start a normal family of their own. “It is really very frustrating. The behavior of your father or mother is affecting your life negatively, but there is nothing you can do about it,” added Abdulhadi.Sari Arafat, 12, has also been affected by his father’s drug addiction, which led to his parents’ divorce following which both of them rejected him. “Being the son of a non-Saudi father who has a criminal record as a result of his addiction ruins any chance I had of getting the Saudi nationality from my mother,” said Arafat. Studies show that addicted parents often lack the ability to provide structure or discipline in family life, but at the same time they expect their children to be competent at a wide variety of tasks earlier than do non-substance-abusing parents.“Children of addicted parents are faced with emotional difficulties caused by their parents situation and the rejection of society,” said Azza Abubakur, a sociologist at King Abdulaziz University. “It is well known that drug addiction is not accepted in Saudi society. And this is especially true when it comes to marriage. Parents refuse to allow their children to marry the children of drug addicts so as to prevent any future problems,” she added.Esra Abdullah, 23, the daughter of a man addicted to alcohol, said that in her neighborhood no one wants to communicate with her or her family.“Everyone can see that my drunk father sleeps all day, has no job or money, and forces my mother to ask for money from her relatives,” she said. “We lost our lives, our reputation and our ability to have a normal family just because of drink,” she added. The statistics for drug and alcohol abuse in the Kingdom is as much as 40-50% amongst young saudi men. Islamic scholars think that despite all the difficulties that children of addicted parents face, they should still try to treat and help their parents.“Drugs and alcohol can negatively affect all members of the family, but parents have the right to help and treatment instead of being hated. Muslims should keep in mind that in at least four places, the Qur’an puts kindness to parents immediately after worship of Allah, which is why Muslims should be gentle and kind to their parents and treat them with respect,” said Sheikh Taha Hassan. –

Source:
http://www.saudigazette.com.sa/index.cfm?method=home.regcon&contentid=2009041935508

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Saturday, July 9, 2011

Women driving in Saudi Arabia

Well it's not the first time that women's right activists have pleaded with Abu Metab (affectionate name for King Abdullah) to allow women to drive within the conservative Kingdom of Saudi Arabia. Recently a group of women who have obtained licences from outside the Kingdom decided to drive their cars and naturally a few of them were detained by  the authorities. The law banning women from driving in the Kingdom is once again not an Islamic law but rather a cultural one and once again it is these cultural laws  that portrays the Arab Islamic world in a negative way. Such laws are baseless and completely against Islamic teachings. Islam was and will always be a religion of foresight and vision. It is man's ignorance that has made a mockery out of the religion to the point where Hilary Clinton supposedly stepped in to try and coerce the King to withdraw the law preventing women from driving. Big Brother America once again wants to portray to the world that they are a nation that upholds women's rights and democracy. The truth is that if our Islamic countries practiced Islam in its purest form and followed the way of the Prophet (saw) it would be undoubtedly the Islamic world  that would be the forerunners in justice, democracy and affording full rights to all women. Ironically the Kingdom does not have a written law in place banning women from driving. This ban is implemented by pressure emerging from the religious police and of course the religious clerics who govern the laws of the country.

At the time of the prophet Muhammed (saw) where the mode of transport was camels or horses, women were allowed and even encouraged to learn how to ride a camel or a horse, so it is only natural that with changing modes of transport over time women should be allowed to drive a vehicle.In many of the remote parts of Saudi Arabia that I have visited, there are many Bedouin women who do actually drive without being bothered by the authorities.Women are also allowed to drive within Saudi Aramco situated in the Eastern part of the country.There is a lot of hypocrisy that exists within the Kingdom. On the one hand a woman is only allowed to travel outside the country after seeking permission from a mahram. A woman’s mahram is a person whom she is never permitted to marry because of their close blood relationship (such as her father, grandfather, great-grandfather, etc., and her son, grandson, great-grandson, etc., her paternal and maternal uncles, her brother, brother’s son and sister’s son), or because because of radaa’ah or breastfeeding (such as the brother and husband of the woman who breastfed her), or because they are related by marriage (such as the mother’s husband, the husband’s father, grandfather, etc., and the husband’s son, grandson, etc.).Whilst on the other hand because she can not drive herself she is forced to make use of cabs or hire a driver who is not her mahram.There has been a few isolated reports whereby drivers have abused their female passengers. In a twist of tale, there has also been reports of numerous females indulging in sexual relationships with their drivers.

When the religious clerics were questioned regarding the whole mahram issue, Sheikh Abdul Mohsin Bin Nasser Al Obaikan, a member of the Scholars of Saudi Arabia, the king advisers and consultants in the ministry of law caused a controversy after issuing one of the most bizarre and ridiculous laws ever.It is so ridiculous that any intelligent person would recognise the level of ignorance that the people of power hold in today's times.The Prophet (saw) said, 'Just before the Hour, there will be days in which knowledge will disappear and ignorance will appear, and there will be much killing.' " (Ibn Majah; also narrated by Bukhari and Muslim,from the Hadith of al-A'mash.) 

Sheikh Nasser Bin Abdul Mohsin Al Obaikan said that the driver can interact freely with the entire family without breaking the law master Saudi Arabia if they are breastfed by women who employ them.
Sheikh Nasser Bin Abdul Mohsin Al Obaikan said “A woman can breastfeed an adult man, so he became her son. Thus he can interact with all the women in her employer’s house without violating Islamic law. ”
Sheikh Nasser Bin Abdul  Mohsin Al Obaikan said “The man should drink breast milk, but not directly from her breast. Once he drinks the breast milk he would become a member of the family, allowing him to interact freely with the women of the household without violating any Islamic law. ”But one other Saudi religious official, Sheikh Abu Ishaq al Huwaini  does not agree with the fatwa, he says that the man should suck milk directly from the breast, rather than glass. Both views are absolutely nonsensical.
Thousands of other clerics across the globe have denounced these baseless rulings and quite rightly so.
On the flip side of things, as a Muslim woman coming from a western orientated society where I was allowed to drive I always wished that I had a driver to chauffeur me around especially from work to home which was usually a long tedious one hour drive.When I came to Saudi Arabia my wish came true as I now have a driver. I feel that my life has become so much more convenient. With one phone call my driver appears like a genie in a bottle. I don't have to concentrate on the road anymore. I don't have to be stressed out driving through peak hour traffic with cars honking and speeding down the road. I don't have to look for parking at a shopping centre any more. I simply get dropped off right at the doorstep.I don't have to concentrate and become irritated whilst driving through Riyadh's horrendous traffic.The driving culture here is very rough and so even if I was allowed to drive I wouldn't want to drive. And of course if you are a married woman, your life becomes a thousand times easier as hubby has to take on most of the responsibilities like dropping the kids of to school or picking them up if the driver is not available. In a western society, women have to be super moms undertaking many responsibilities. I find that in Saudi Arabia the women here are more relaxed as most of the chores are delegated to the driver and of course the husband. I actually feel more pampered and queen like being chauffeur driven but of course that is just my opinion. Someone else could think otherwise.

Whilst Saudi women are demanding the King to allow them to drive in the Kingdom which is definitely a step in the right direction towards enforcing proper Islamic laws, I do firmly believe that there are other more urgent and pressing issues regarding women's rights that needs to be addressed such as domestic violence against women, tribal arranged marriages which is once again un-Islamic, better employment opportunities for women, female education and of course making court procedures involving women easier.The issue of women driving  in Saudi Arabia is quite a trivial one  in comparison to the above issues I've mentioned. To Saudi Women I'd like to say that the grass always seems to be greener on the other side until you experience it for yourself!!!!!