Beware of the Muslim swingers club in your area

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A few days ago there was an article published with regards to the swingers club in Lenasia. On another facebook page people were arguing that the write up just can not be true.Well folks it is true. I heard the story from the horses mouth. The house where these illicit activities are occurring is located in extension 5.. rainbow valley. Apparently it is an area in Lenasia where rich Indian families reside. The club comprises of rich Muslim,Hindu and Tamil businessmen.The lady who related her ordeal to the newspaper divorced her husband within a week after he took her to the club and expected her to engage in sexual activities with his friend. She had no idea that her husband belonged to the club. He informed her that he was invited at a friends house for dinner. Arriving at the home, she noticed many of the women dressed erotically. Her husband dropped his car keys in a bowl which she found odd. After indulging in some finger foods, she noticed some of the couples dancing. She also noticed a man picking up their car keys from a bowl. Her husband then instructed her to go upstairs with the gentleman who also happened to be a close friend of his. She was totally confused and asked her husband why should she go upstairs with the man. Her husband then revealed the truth to her that he is a part of the swingers club and he wants her to participate as well to improve their sex life. Naturally she was shocked. She slapped him, took the car keys and drove off to her mothers home.  The lady has been married to her husband for almost 20 years. They have grown up married kids..There is apparently a Muslim swingers club in Houghton, Laudium and Sandton as well.Shocking is n't it...Some of these men who belong to swingers clubs feel that it is better to engage in these type of sexual activities with their wives instead of marrying other women or having affairs. There is also a group of Muslim businessmen who frequent elite escort agencies in Sandton. These businessmen believe that they are unable to marry other women, as their wives will not accept the presence of a second or third wife. Many of these businessmen fear divorce as their wives are fifty percent share holders in the business and hence if their infidelity is caught they will pay a heavy price. Many of these businessmen believe that their wives are old and can not satisfy them sexually any more and hence have opted to frequent elite escort agencies in Sandton where their activities and identities are kept totally secret.

Yesterday afternoon the police informed us that there is a Muslim owned home in Fietas that has become a brothel.Drugs and alcohol is sold at this house. Young Indian, white, coloured and Malay girls are recruited to satisfy customers needs. Muslim businessmen, Imaams and moulanas frequent this house for sexual gratification. Many of these young women are on drugs so they have sex with different men in exchange for drugs and alcohol. I felt so embarrassed when the policeman said that most of the drug busts in this country involve rich Muslim businessmen.These same men walk with their heads high, showing off about their properties,cars and houses yet it is all earned in a haraam way. In their quest to achieve name and fame they have destroyed the lives of innocent young men and women.Well all i can say is that these people can show off about their materialistic possessions in this world but when they go six feet deep they will have to answer to their Creator....

When I posted this info on facebook last night, it seems to have received lots of interest with many people messaging me wanting to know where are the houses located etc etc. I will not divulge any more information. The issue I have though is that the Ulema in our community know that this is happening so why are they not addressing this issue in a Juma khutbah. Every week they talk about the same old crap but fail to address pertinent issues within our community. With regards to the home in Fietas, I hope that the police arrest members of this family soon and take legal action against them. People like that need to rot in jail with the keys thrown away.......

A really shocking E-mail I received!!

As-salaam Alaikum, my question sister is regarding Anal Sex. I know clearly that anal sex is forbidden in Islam. However my husband is not a well practicing Muslim in this regard. I try to practice Islam as closely as possible and try to remove things in my life that may be sinful. My Husband is overall an understanding person and does not create any obstacle in me trying to follow Islam. However, when it comes to Sexual issues, he does not like it at all when I put restrictions on him. He likes to have full freedom in this aspect. He really wants to do anal sex and I stop him but then he gets very upset and mad at me. Due to this he is even fading away his understanding for me in other areas of life. He is frustrated, and some times even if I don't like it, he has still performed anal sex with me forcefully causing me tremendous pain and discomfort. My question is, am I going to be punishable for this? In my heart, I know its wrong and I also try to stop him, but sometimes he just does not listen, will Allah hold me responsible for this? Am i sinful?I  do wish to divorce him over this issue. Sister as embarrassing as my situation sounds please post this on your wall so that young Muslim women out there know what they may encounter in marriage. The looks and appearance of a person is deceiving and only once you live with the person does all his true colours come out.In appearance, my husband wears the thobe (kurta) seven days a week, he prays five times a day and yet when it comes to sexual aspects of our relationship he is a devil. Part of the problem sister is the instant availability of sexual pornographic material on the television, computer and of course the mobile phone. I have been separated from him for a month now and moved in with my parents. However, a week ago I went home unexpectedly to bring the remainder of my clothes. I was shocked and disgusted to find him engaged in sexual intercourse with two other men (sodomy) and a white woman. I could not believe what I witnessed in front of me and felt like throwing up..I stormed out of the house only to receive a text that if you can not satisfy me through anal intercourse I will seek pleasure elsewhere.....There were a few times when he suggested that we participate in group sexual activities with a few other Muslim couples he knew who were engaging in these type of activities as well.I brushed off the idea.....He wears  thobe during the day and yet on weekends he frequents night clubs with his friends. He watches pornographic movies and always compared me to his favourite pornstar going as far as wanting me to go in for a breast augmentation surgery as well as buttock implants.....astaghfirullah.........

To my Muslim sisters out there who are single, marriage in today's day and age is really difficult. Think twice before deciding to marry. I now regret marrying and feel that I was better off leading a single life.What is happening within our Muslim communities in South Africa is shocking but no one is talking about it and bringing these issues out in the open.......I ask all of you to please make dua for me through this difficult time and to ask Allah to guide all those who are astray and who have gone against the teachings of the Quraan and the Sunnah of the Prophet Muhammed (saw).......Thank you sister Sumayya for being bold enough to stand up to issues that are affecting our communities and talking about it openly. The world needs more people like you. My duas and well wishes are always with you. May Allah always be with you......Ameen